Day: December 4, 2018

Why I Give to Foothills

by Lindsay Tearman

My church is a second home for me. It is a living, breathing second family that I have picked out for myself. When I made the choice to become a partner, to officially join the church, I was all in. That meant giving support physically, spiritually, and financially as well. And I give recurrent donations with love and hope to support this church. I want to assure that this place that I cherish never has to reduce its reach to our community or be unable to provide care for all who enter.

It can’t happen without me and hundreds of others. Without funding support, Foothills cannot continue to extend to our own community and beyond, to offer sanctuary to those in crisis, to offer a safe place to those in turmoil, to provide assurance of justice and comfort and love to all those that walk in the door every single Sunday. It doesn’t happen without me.

I love that my donation each month goes to partner with a multitude of non-profits all over Northern Colorado. It goes towards making our whole community a better place, a more giving place. I feel like I am personally impacting so many more lives through Foothills than I could ever hope to on my own. The model of generosity shown by Foothills is truly outstanding. We share the plate with a non-profit each month, we host a mobile food bank, we work with Faith Family Hospitality, and so much more. And I am a part of that.

I had never given regularly to a church in my life, until I became a member at Foothills, and I have not looked back since. The more I examined my own habits with money, and looked deeply at my relationship with spending, the freer I felt in giving to something that truly mattered to me.

Here is what I know: I have bought and returned many clothing or household items in my life after having a change of heart about an impulse buy near the register. After pledging for two years with Foothills, I have NEVER once wanted a refund. I have never thought that money could have been better spent. I have never had “buyer’s remorse.” And it is because this is my home and my family that I am taking care of. That feels really good, every single time.

Foothills is growing — we cannot keep up with the needs of the community without having more people join as partners with us. Being a part of this has changed my life and is changing the lives of so many others right here within our walls.

You can’t truly quantify a donation. Its power is limitless, and you may never know the impact that it has. You may not have anything to physically hold in your hands when all is said in done. But know that you’ve helped others who could not always help themselves.

What a beautiful thing.

In Your Words: Wishes for Our Future and Highlights from our Past

Starting today and over the next eight weeks, we’ll be sharing with you some of the future wishes and past highlights that we saw represented most frequently in the data that was collected in our 22 visioning sessions* with some 350 members, friends, and staff of Foothills.

The entire body of data can be reviewed here.

The Board of Trustees held a retreat before Thanksgiving to sift through this data and discern both guiding values for our congregation and concrete vision statements. We will hold a special board meeting in December to complete the process and will present the final values and vision statements** at our half-yearly congregational update meeting in January.

These values and vision statements will complete the triumvirate of Values, Mission, and Vision that are the cornerstones of the large-congregation, policy-based governance structure that Foothills has been diligently working to transition into for a number of years now.

This new model of governance is designed to allow a large and growing democratic congregation and its governing board to operate in an effective partnership with a strong, permission-giving ministry team to further the mission of the church. In the case of our mission, to help Foothills Unitarian Church unleash courageous love in Northern Colorado and beyond by embracing our diversity, growing our faith, and awakening our spirits to the unfolding meaning of this life.

Here are a few of the highlights and values from this wonderfully successful visioning process that so many of you gave so generously to of your time and energy. We’ll share more in the coming weeks.

Courageous love as we experienced it at Foothills:

  • Being included and supported in the “tangled blessings” grief group, and experiencing the courage to be small.
  • Gather and sisterhood groups: respectful listening, commitment, continuity/familiarity and deepened relationships, shared leadership.
  • Women’s group as a new member: warmth, hugs, welcoming.
  • Renaming moment for the Harris family celebrating their child’s gender transition: willingness to show up, do what you can.

Our wishes for the current and future Foothills congregation:

  • I want everyone to feel the amount of belonging here in this church that I have found.
  • Rediscover create/fun energy in myself and help others who may be marginalized do the same.
  • More connecting to find ways to help/support each other within our church community.

In faith and love,
Sue Sullivan
Board Secretary

*In those sessions, for those who weren’t able to participate, we were asked to share a story of the holy or transcendent in small groups, identify value words that our story embodied, and winnow those value words to a set that our small group could agree were common to all our stories.

Next, we shared a memory of experiencing courageous love in action at Foothills in our small group.

Then we shared our boldest wishes for the future of the congregation, and the small groups created a magazine cover from 10 years in the future of how Foothills was making news and impacting the world.