Month: August 2020 (Page 1 of 2)

Reopening (Your Heart): Series

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Join us this Sunday, August 23, 2020
as we kick off our new series, Re-opening (Your Heart)

After the services, we’ll be hosting a drive-by for all parents and children and all others who are beginning a new school year, starting at 12:30 pm.
This all-online home-based school year brings a lot of anxiety and challenge for a lot of us. I mean, how can we keep our hearts open when we’re barely keeping it all together??

One way you can help is to share a blessing from you to our kids as they start the year. Film yourself with your blessing and submit it here. We’ll compile your blessings into a video we share with all Foothills’ families. Just a few moments of seeing you rooting for them – I know it might not seem like it, but I promise, it’ll make a difference!

Sundays in this Series 

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At the heart of this series is our week of Water Communion! This ritual will invite us to release both as individuals and as a whole community all that we need to release in order to make space for what is newly emerging.

The first of our opportunities for you to participate in this week starts this Sunday – so be sure to check out foothillsuu.org/watercommunion right away! Find your site, and let us know when you’re coming![/vc_column_text][vc_video link=”https://youtu.be/zZiAITwnbq8″ align=”center” title=”Gretchen’s Invitation to Water Communion”][vc_column_text]Beyond the collective ritual of water communion, to explore the messages of this series more fully throughout the series, you might practice (as many times as you’d like throughout the series) what writer Francis Weller describes as Speaking to the Earth.

In this practice, go to a place outdoors where you feel utterly safe.

Then, dig an opening in the earth big enough to place your whole hand in.  Say some words of gratitude to the earth for its capacity to receive whatever you need to set down.

Then, let the earth know what you need.  Say as much or as little as you’re able.

Then, lie on your belly, placing your hands into the opening you’ve dug as you do, and speak, weep, cry, or scream your grief into the earth.

Know she is able to take it in, and she will reshape it into nutrients for new life.  When you are done, thank the earth for her loving and holding.

And then close the opening back to how you found it as much as possible.

Those who try this often report feeling lighter and moved by the goodness of the earth and her witness.  Try it out, see how it impacts you.

Opportunities Beyond Sunday 

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Guiding Music

[/vc_column_text][vc_video link=”https://youtu.be/bDNVtSKLe-Y”][vc_column_text]We’ve taken a break from our theme song practice – where we choose a song for each series that we sing or perform in every Sunday in the series – but we’re excited to return to this idea for this series.  We’ve chosen one of our hymns – #146, Soon the Day Will Arrive – as produced by the artist ThisisLEA.  It’s a song that acknowledges the waiting we are doing together and connects us in with our longing for the world that is emerging.[/vc_column_text][vc_separator][vc_column_text]

Explore Further

A lot of this series will be delving into William Bridges’ classic work, Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes. If you haven’t read it yet, now’s a great time!

We’re also going to be working a lot with grief and with endings in this series.  One great resource you should check out is The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller.  It’s the source of the spiritual practice described above and has a bunch of other practical and poetic resources for working with grief and keeping the heart fully open.

If you haven’t yet watched the film, The Farewell, even though we aren’t dealing directly with the end of life as this film does, the film is also about the question of how we can keep living fully, even in the face of endings.  It’s also just a great film – check it out[/vc_column_text][vc_separator][vc_column_text]

Look for Sunday Follow-Ups in the Monday Worship Email

The service on Sunday is just 1 of 168 hours in your week.

Which means that the way to make Sunday have a real impact on our lives, we need to find ways to bring it into the rest of the week. One of the ways we’re doing this is through Monday’s email containing all the major elements of the service. We’ll also be adding in a few resources to check out, as well as questions for contemplation or conversation.

We hope this offers you a touchstone throughout your week to return to and to go deeper – and to pass it on to a friend who you think would appreciate it.

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Auction Update

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]In only four weeks we will be hosting the annual Foothills’ fundraising Auction – COVID ConnAuction!

You do not want to miss out on the opportunity to bid on the wonderfully creative and thoughtful donations that have been offered by members of our congregation. This is also a great way to connect, have fun and support the work of our church. There will be several activities during Auction Week – something for everyone – stay tuned for more information!

Dig deep into the corners of your creative pockets and think of ways that you can help make 2020 unforgettable in a positive way. If you have questions or would like feedback on a donation item, just contact the team at foothillsauction@gmail.com and we will be happy to help. Add your donation by Sept 10th (sooner is better!) here: foothillsuu.org/auctionform.

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A Night of Creeps, Haunts and Murder. . .

Join Margaret Cottam and Diane Barrett for a Virtual Mystery Party! The town of Amity Hill has been plagued with supernatural activity recently, and the residents have decided to band together and fight the unseen forces. . . the story goes on, but you’ll have to look at the Online Auction Catalog (starting Sept 10th) to see the rest of the particulars… But for sure this will be a good time – they have done three Mystery Dinners for Auctions past (remember when we could eat together?), and fun was had by all. You will be participating by Zoom (alas, no dinner…). They will assign roles and instructions prior to the party. Six to thirteen “Creeps” will win a chance to help solve the mystery on Saturday, October 24th, at 7:00 pm. Bwaah haaah haaah . . .[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/3″][vc_single_image image=”37868″ img_size=”large”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Full info at and links at foothillsuu.org/2020auction[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Books YOU Love!

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]We asked you to “Share the title of a book you love or have recently read and would recommend,” and you answered. We received an incredible response (thank you!) and have compiled a complete list of your book recommendations. Enjoy!

To receive our weekly check-in notice, text the phrase “checksin” to 97-000

Fiction

The Alchemist: A Fable About Following Your Dream, by Paulo Coelho, 1989
The Alice Network, by Kate Quinn, 2017
A Gentleman in Moscow, by Amore Towle, 2019
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, 75th anniversary edition, by Betty Smith, 2018
Ahab’s Wife: Or, the Star-Gazer, by Sena Jeter Naslund & Christopher Wormell, 2005
American Dirt, by Janine Cummings, 2020
Beach Music, by Pat Conroy, 2002
The Best Queen, by Louie Erdich, 2006
The Book of Women of Troublesome Creek, by Kim Michelle Richardson 2019
Centennial, by James Michener, 1976
Crazy Rich Asians, by Kevin Kwan, 2018
The Dutch House, by Ann Patchett, 2019
Fierce Invalids Home From Hot Climates, by Tom Robbins, 2001
The Five People You Meet in Heaven, by Mitch Albom, 2003
Giver of Stars, by Jojo Moyes, 2019
The Glass Hotel, by Emily St. John Mandel, 2020
The Good Earth, by Pearl Buck, 1959
Hawaii, by James Michener, 1959
Hyperion, by Dan Simmons, 1989
Life After Life, by Kate Atkinson, 2014
Lonesome Dove, by Larry McMurtry, 1986
Love in the Time of Cholera, by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, 2007
Maybe in Another Life, by Taylor Jenkins Reid, 2015
The Martian, by Andy Weir, 2014
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, by John Berendt, 1999
The Name of the Wind, Kingkiller Chronicle Book 1 of 3, by Patrick Rothfuss, 2009
The Night Watchman, by Louise Erdrick, 2020
Pillars of the Earth, by Ken Follett, 2007
The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, by Taylor Jenkins Reid, 2018
The Signature of All Things, by Elizabeth Gilbert, 2013
The Sparrow, The Sparrow Series by May Doria Russell, 1997
The Vanishing Half, by Brit Bennett, 2020
This Tender Land, by William Kent Krueger,2020
The Way of Kings: Book One of the Stormlight Archive, by Brandon Sanderson, 2014
Where the Crawdads Sing, by Delia Owens, 2018
White Chrysanthemum, by Many Lynn Bracht, 2018
Why Fish Don’t Exist: A Story of Loss, Love and the Hidden Order of Life, by Lulu Miller, 2020

Non-Fiction

All Creatures Great and Small, by James Harriot, 2014
America in the King Years:
Parting the Waters (America in the King Years 1954-1963), 1984
Pillar of Fire (America in the King Years 1963-1965), 1999
At Canaan’s Edge (America in the King Years 1965-1968), 2007
Becoming Michelle Obama, by Michelle Obama, 2018
Bittersweet: Thoughts on Change, Grace, and Learning the Hard Way, by Shauna Niequist, 2013
Born a Crime, by Trevor Noah, by Trevor Noah, 2019
Boys in the Boat, by Daniel James Brown, 2014
Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teaching of Plants, by Robin Wall Kimmerer, 2015
The Basque History of the World; The Story Of A Nation, by Mark Kurlansky, 2001
The Broken Ladder: How Inequality Affects the Way we Think, Live and Die, by Keith Payne, 2018
Circe, by Madeline Miller, 2020
Citizens of London: The Americans Who Stood with Britain in Its Darkest, Finest Hour, by Lynn Olson, 2011
Deep Creek: Finding Hope in the High Country, by Pam Houston, 2020
Eat and Run: My Unlikely Journey to Ultramarathon Greatness, by Scott Jurek and Steve Friedman, 2013
A Field Guide to the Soul: A Down to Earth Handbook of Spiritual Practice, by James Thompson, 2000
The Gifts of Imperfections: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are, by Brené Brown, 2010
Great Plains, by Ian Frazer, 2001
He Chose the Nails: What God Did to Win Your Heart, by Max Lucado, 2017
Heart of the Buddha’s Teaching: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy, and Liberation, by Tich Nhat Hahn, 1999
How to Be an Adult: A Handbook for Psychological and Spiritual Integration, by David Richo, 1991
How to Be an Antiracist, by Ibram X. Kendi, 2019
How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression and Transcendence, by Michael Pollan, 2019
Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption, by Bryan Stevenson, 2015
Illusions: the Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah, by Richard Bach, 2001
Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Student, by Richard Bach, 2014
Mao’s Last Dancer, by Li Cunxin, 2005
Me Talk Pretty Some Day, by David Sedaris, 2001
Meditations: A New Translation, by Marcus Aurelius, 2003
Modoc: The True Story of the Greatest Elephant That Ever Lived, by Ralph Heifer, 1998
The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness, by Michelle Alexander, 2010
The Newcomers: Finding Refuge, Friendship & Hope in America, by Helen Thorpe, 2018
Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, and Feeling Guilty and Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically being Yourself, by Aziz Gzzipura, 2017
Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World, by David Epstein, 2019
The Rocks Don’t Lie: A Geologist’s Investigates Noah’s Flood, by David R Montgomery, 2012
The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth, by Christopher L. Heuertz, 2012
The Sacred Enneagram Workbook: Mapping Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth, By Christopher Heuertz
Salt: A World History, by Mark Kurlansky, 2003
Seabiscuit: An American Legend, by Laura Hillenbrand, 2002
Seat of the Soul, by Gary Zukav, 1989
The Splendid and the Vile: A Saga of Churchill, Family and Defiance During the Blitz, by Erik Larson, 2020
Taylor Branch Trilogy, by Taylor Branch
Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life, by Karen Anderson, 2018
We Build Reality: How Social Science Infiltrated Culture, Politics and Power, by Jason Blakely, 2020
Your Money or Your Life: 9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence, by Vicki Robin, 2018
Zamba: The True Story of the Greatest Lion That Ever Lived, by Ralph Heifer, 2006[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Ways to Mark Time

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]It doesn’t really feel like August, does it? August usually means back to school shopping, finding out where you sit and how your classroom will be set up.  Or if you’re not connected to school, August often means preparing for fall trips or projects. But this year…what does August mean?

One of the most disorienting parts of corona time is the loss of “the usual.” Habits and rituals and routines that ground us in our daily lives and to time in a broader sense have fallen away.

Humans need rituals. Rituals offer us a purposeful acknowledgment of transition and change. Rituals help our brains process the shifts in our own lives and in life itself.  Rituals orient us in time. And rituals connect us to each other, and to our deeper values – the bigger story our lives are a part of.

This is why we felt so strongly that we needed to set aside time for some important goodbyes this week. So that we could acknowledge more fully the big transitions we are experiencing as a community, and make space in our hearts for both the gratitude and grief of these changes.

The first was Thursday, as the family ministry team held a lunch time goodbye and thank you to Betsy Naas, our Family Ministry Assistant who is headed to Smith College for graduate school this fall. If you missed it, you can send notes to Betsy via Eleanor.

We also had a drive-by goodbye for Rev. Kristen on Friday evening.

In the midst of these goodbyes, we are also making space for some new beginnings.

Our new Assistant Minister Rev. Elaine Aron-Tenbrink began her work with us this week, and has started to meet with some of our caring network and lay leaders to set the foundation for the work ahead.

Our new Director of Finance and Operations, Katie Watkins, has officially begun full time in the last two weeks, and our new Marketing Manager Tanner Linden is the long timer as he enters his third week on the team!

To help mark these new beginnings, we are looking to hold a couple of set-aside times for you to drop in and get to know these amazing new staff members. Look for more information in the coming weeks.

One of my favorite ways to think about Sunday services, actually, is a way to mark time. The routine of returning again to community, to commitment, to a collective vision for an hour each week helps ground us in time’s passing and helps connect us to our place in it all.

This Sunday my friend and colleague the Rev. Kelly Dignan (some of you may know her from her meditation sessions) will be leading worship with me as she offers her UU Good News with a message on why bad things happen. I look forward to marking time with you this Sunday at 9 & 11 am MT.

With love,
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About the School News…

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Hello friends…I don’t know about you, but my heart sank with the news this evening. It was different than how it sank the last time they announced we’d be going all online. Because then, it was hard – OK, impossible – but it was temporary. But this time….the second time in 6 months we’ve gotten the news that our kids would be moving to all-online home-based learning experience – can you believe this crazy time we are living in?! This time, it was different.

Like a lot of you, my family has agonized over the return to in-person school, especially as our County and State infections rise – at higher rates than back then. And, as the stories come in from other schools and camps with outbreaks across the country, it’s terrifying. For the kids, and parents, and staff.

So, part of the sinking feeling this time is relief.

And yet paired with that grief, is the increasing sense that this time, the end is much less clear. The sinking feeling this time is still grief, and anger, and overwhelm, and shock – all the feelings, really – but at a new level.

And what I really wanted to reach out and say tonight is that you are not alone. Whatever you’re feeling, however you’re dealing, you’re not alone.

I know it can feel like it. I know, we’ve been pushed into our collective corners to struggle and grieve and deal and fail and try to make sense of what makes no sense – all by ourselves.

But that’s not the real truth. The real truth is that you have community and companions and people who love you and who are rooting for you and your family. Some of them you’ve already met, and know well; a bunch of others you haven’t met yet. Some of their hearts sink for exactly the same reason yours does; some are a little, or a lot different.

The connecting thread is that we’re all feeling all these feelings in response to this moment, and we all want and need not just to “get by” in this time, but to imagine that we could grow, and deepen, and strengthen our families, our sense of self, our communities. To imagine that we could look back at this time and think – that was when we grew into the people we always longed to be.

I know, it’s a big thing to imagine. And, if we return to our corners in this moment and get immediately into survival mode (remember then!), and a sense that we have to figure it out on our own– we’ll never get there.

But if on the other hand, if we can remember the truth that we are not actually alone in this, but connected in a great community all struggling and also all rooting for each other, then maybe we can bring our collective creativity and collective courage to the table, and in small acts of great love, imagine our way to something new.

Which is why I want ask for two things:

  • First, light a candle at some point in the next 24 hours. Light a candle, and imagine all the other families and children and school staff who are in this school year with you and your family. And say out loud, or in your heart, I am with you. I am rooting for you. You are not alone. Imagine all the other families out there lighting their candle, and saying that back to you.
  • And then second, check in. Check in using our weekly text we send out. Or check in with your Circle buddy or Zoom. Or check in when we hold our next parent gathering (the next one is on Thursday night, August 6). Or check in by calling up someone you suspect might be one of those who are rooting for you and your family and tell them how you’re doing. Find a way to check in, and then keep checking in. Feel in those check ins the way you are a part of a community beyond those you know personally, a community where love is the spirit, and where we’ve promised to journey together through all of life, especially those parts where none of us know the way forward.

Glennon Doyle talks about how we can do hard things. I feel like a lot of times we focus on the “can” and “hard” part of that statement. But in this moment, I’m realizing that the most important word is “we.” We can do hard things – because we’re in this together.

I’m off to light my candle for you. I am with you. I am rooting for you. You are not alone.

With big love,

Rev. Gretchen

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