Month: December 2020

These are a few of our favorite things (or moments!):

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Last week, we asked you to share the memory of a favorite gift or gesture you received on a past holiday. Here are your responses:

  • A barbie house ❤️
  • A letter/song about how wonderful of a mom I am from my preteen son about 10 years ago.
  • A puppy!
  • A surprise loaf of homemade bread😘
  • An airplane ticket to USSR in 1988.
  • An iPad from my family so I can see them on FaceTime, it’s been a blessing this year
  • Baby arrived right after Christmas, 7 weeks early…UU Rowdy Moms stepped in to help with older kids so I could be at the hospital while baby was in intensive care.
  • For the past 12 years we have received a calendar from our kids documenting the past year in pictures.
  • I enjoyed a personalized calendar with pictures of extended family.
  • I received a Wellspring 2020 solstice small package on my front porch yesterday. The contents filled my heart with surprise and joy!
  • In 1967, my HS junior, I was the only one without a letter sweater when pins were awarded. I’d lettered in 4 sports so I had go up to the stage 4X, embarrassed 4Xs. I knew the embarrassment would continue my senior year. In August my Grandmother said she had an early Xmas present for me and I’d just have to understand there would NOT be another gift at Christmas. The gift was the letter sweater! This $20 gift was huge, far more than any gift she could afford. I’ll always remember how much I was loved and how well she understood what a 16 yr old girl “needed” to feel “included”.
  • Last Christmas my brother flew me to North Carolina so all my brothers and sisters could all be together. It was great!
  • Last year my partner got us dancing lessons.
  • More than anything time with those I love. The laughing, the treats, the drinks, the hugs ❤️
  • My first figure skates … more than 70 years ago… from “uncle” Benny a dear friend of my parents. Only to be revealed decades later that my mother actually picked them out and wrapped them for me. Gotta love those Santas!
  • My late husband gave me beautiful sapphire & diamond earrings his last Christmas. They have become my most prized possession
  • My son wrote on some wrapping paper one year “Dad, I couldn’t have asked for a better role model”. It’s one of my favorite gifts ever. I framed it and put it on my wall. I don’t even remember what was in the package.
  • Ornaments for my collection
  • Our children all traveled to Fort Collins last year for our first Christmas here.
  • Our son surprising me by coming home from college early. He was hiding in a big box, wrapped, and I took my time saying hi to the family first, before opening the package! 😬😳😱😁🥰
  • Received my bicycle from my grandparents. I was 10 years old.
  • The first Christmas I was single and the mother of four little boys, my neighbor took them to the store and they each bought me a different color of nail polish. Best gifts ever!!
  • The gift of family and friends.
  • The joy our grandkids have as they experience traditions with us year after year…
  • The t-shirt that says “Papa like a grandpa only cooler. Also a book called “How to babysit a Grandpa” and a custom book that our oldest daughter had made go Father’s Day.
  • Visit with all my family and my son’s homemade eggnog.
  • When I was in high school I spotted an expensive (to me) sweater that I fell in love with. I must have mentioned it to my mom because much to my great surprise is was under the Christmas tree. It showed me that she pays attention to me. 45 years later, I still have the sweater and treasure it.
  • While living in Mx. For many years we did not exchange gifts with family snd friends. . We always gave each other the gift of travel. And tried to do the same with our family by bringing them to our B&B for a unique holiday. We still try to do the same.

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What’s Your Path to Holiday Magic? Take the Quiz!

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”39769″ img_size=”full”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]In 2020, holiday magic may feel like an especially tall order. Magic is a tricky word. Even in a “normal” year, the marketing of holiday magic can seem trite, fake, or flimsy.

It helps to remember that in the most basic sense, magic describes one thing changing into another. Not just any sort of change, of course. Magic implies a change that is inexplicable, unpredictable, and awe-inspiring. The sort of change people long for when they feel stuck or helpless. The change people crave when they cannot see their way to a better world.

Living in this time when we feel stuck and it’s hard to imagine a better future, we don’t need the trite, false sort of holiday magic. We need magic that transforms the 5 pm darkness into a signal not of life’s end but its beginning. We need magic that stirs within us a sense of possibility, preparation, and transformation.

We need magic that transforms division into community, fear into trust, greed into generosity, injustice into liberation, and chaos into peace. We need magic that reminds us we are never alone and love abounds even when darkness limits what we can see in the moment.

I know it’s a a lot for just a few weeks. This is why the task this season is not to get this magic all at once. It is simply to find our way to small moments of magic. To tune into moments of wonder, love, connection, ease, laughter, and joy sprinkled throughout our days.

I’ve developed a fun, short online quiz to help you proactively identify and engage in practices that will awaken magic. The purpose of this quiz is to offer a path to remembering that life-sustaining magic is still possible, even in 2020.

With love,

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Quotes That Keep Us Going…

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Last week we asked you to share a quote or mantra that has kept you going. Thanks to all who shared something. Here are the responses:

 

“A bird in hand is worth 2 in the bush.”

“All good things come to me.”

“All models are bad, but some are useful.”

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Gandhi

“Because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.”

“Breathe in, Breathe out.”

“When I breathe in, I breathe in peace. When I breathe out, I breathe out love.”

“Choose discomfort over resentment.”

“Coincidence is God’s way of remaining anonymous.”

“Do what you can. Be who you are. Want what you have.”

“Every day I wake up a better pickleball player!”  😉

“Everyone has their own God taking care of them. ” (Meaning that I don’t have to take care of everyone and can release myself from that responsibility when I start to feel it.)

“Everything is a choice. Choose happy.”

“Fail, fail fast, and fail again.”

“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change and to accept the things I can change and the wisdom to know the difference.”

“Happiness is not a destination but a way of life.”

“Have Courage and Be Kind”

“In a world where you can be anything, be kind.”

“In this life we cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love.” – Mother Teresa

“It is a mark of leadership to adjust.”

“It is always darkest before the dawn.”

“It is better to light one candle than to curse the dark.”

“It’s not nice to fool Mother Nature!” And this actress passed away last week.”

“Just Do It” the iconic slogan of the company named after the Goddess of Victory; “Just friggin do it”—my oft repeated version of that slogan.

“Let it Be.”

“Never let what you can’t do get in the way of what you can.”

“Nothing without joy.”

“One does not sell the earth upon which the people walk.” – Tahshunke Witko

“Pick myself up, dust myself off and start ALL over again.”

“Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.” – Scott Adams

“Shared joy is double joy; shared sorrow is half sorrow.”

“Everything will be alright in the end; so if everything is not alright, then it is not yet the end💖

“Six more months, just six more months…”

“The worst four letter word in the English language is “mine”.”

“This too shall pass.”

“Toward the One, the perfection of love, harmony and beauty, the only being, united with all the illuminated souls who form the embodiment of the Master, the spirit of guidance.”

“We are still in the middle of the story.”

“What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?” – Jean-Jacques Rousseau

“When you are going through Hell, keep going.” — Winston Churchill

“You can always have your way if you have more than one way.”

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What we are thankful for…

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