Month: October 2021

Halloween Weekend 2021 🎃

This weekend at Foothills is full of fun, reflection, remembering, and more! Here’s the schedule:

Saturday, October 30th

Join us SATURDAY, October 30th, for a morning of Halloween stories, ritual, music, and spooky fun! 11 am outside at Foothills Unitarian Church. Please RSVP HERE, wear your costumes, and bring your pre-scooped pumpkins and carving tools.

Please note that there is NOT a 10 am service at the park this Sunday. 

Sunday, October 31st

We will host two services of remembrance this SUNDAY, October 31st. There will be opportunities in both services to remember and honor your loved ones who have died.

8:30 am in person at Foothills Unitarian Church (please bring a photograph or memento of a loved one who has died to the service). Reserve your spot for the 8:30 am service HERE.

9 am on Zoom (please email a photograph of your loved one to sean@foothillsuu.org by Saturday, October 30th, at noon).
Click HERE to join the Zoom service. 

You can also watch a broadcast of the Zoom service on our website or Facebook Live Saturday at 11 am.

5 Things Happening at Foothills!

1. Halloween Church with Pumpkin Carving

Join us for a morning of Halloween stories, ritual, music and spooky fun!
Bring your pre-scooped pumpkin and carving tools, wear your Halloween costume and join your Foothills community for some serious Halloween merrymaking!

This is a 5th Sunday so all of our pods are invited to attend as well as anyone who wants to join us for the day!

If you are not already signed up for 10 am services, please RSVP here!

The 8:30 am in-person service at the church and 9 am Zoom service will still happen on October 31st. Both of these services will be our annual services of remembrance.

2. Tangled Blessings

Grief can visit us with a unique intensity as we make our way through the holiday season and into the winter months. Tangled Blessings is a twice-monthly grief group where participants are invited to bring their whole selves and the reality of their grieving. Through sharing, silence, ritual, and reflection, we will offer each other support and companionship.

Tangled Blessings will meet virtually, with the possibility of in-person gatherings with the consent of the whole group. Registration is requested.
 

3. Faith Family Hospitality

We are hosting Faith Family Hospitality families the week of October 31 to November 6. These families are currently experiencing homelessness and are working hard to become re-housed. We hope you will help these families feel welcome as they stay at Foothills for a week by volunteering to bring a meal, being an evening host or as an overnight host. Please sign up to serve HERE.

 

4. Tai Chi

The Monday T’ai Chi Chih class/spiritual practice helps students deepen their knowledge of TCC and its principles, as well as its application to life.  Students at all levels are welcome to follow along.   

Reading and class discussion at 9:30; drop in at 10 am for practice only.

Learn more here.

5. Feel Good Yoga

Join Foothills friends on Zoom for a weekly Saturday morning yoga and mindfulness practice. We begin by lighting a chalice, move through a gentle yoga flow and end with a guided meditation practice.

Join us for community, some movement, breath and centering. Click HERE to join on Zoom.

Join Us for Essential – Our October 2021 Worship Series!

“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. 
What we do with this hour and that one is what we are doing.”
– Annie Dillard  
Yesterday morning, just like every morning, I woke up to four different emails from four news organizations. Each of these had an attention-grabbing subject line: 
  • Dozens of states have tried to end qualified immunity. Police officers and unions helped beat nearly every bill
  • New airline opens skies between Fort Collins and Southern California 
  • Amendment 78 addresses state spending, 98% of Kaiser employees in Colorado are vaccinated, Broncos’ Teddy Bridgewater makes steps to return 
  • Senate Nears Agreement to Stave Off Debt Crisis Until December 

If I clicked on each of these emails, there would’ve been a dozen or so more headlines also looking for another click. If I followed them all the way through, a half-day would easily have gone by, and by then, I’d probably have noon updates from each of them.

Instead of clicking, though, I hit delete. For all of them.

Even though there was some really important and good information I’d be missing.  

Even though I might be able to use some of that information for this or another Sunday’s sermon.  

Even though I am interested in flying direct to Southern California! 

Even though someone might ask me about one of those headlines, and now I’ll have to confess I don’t know anything (or try to act like I do).  

I hit delete because I knew if I didn’t, they’d either sit in my inbox (and the back-of-my-mind) and keep me from finding the messages that really do need my attention or I’d open them and slowly forget what else I meant to do or where else I needed to give my time and attention. 

Adding more information won’t strengthen relationships or sustain me through struggle. Adding more information won’t help me gain wisdom or mend what has been broken in our world.  

Adding more wouldn’t actually help me get at the essence of what I want my life to be or how I am called to serve. 

Life today feels like this decision-making process over and over and over. Receiving information or opportunities that are all in and of themselves good. And then trying to decide if we should “click” or “delete.” Even the deciding itself becomes a distraction and a weight – look at all those amazing headlines still trying so hard to grab us. In a time where there is so much to constantly decide, the trying-to-decide can be so exhausting.

It becomes hard to remember the essential parts of life and how to keep hold of what matters in the face of so many distractions.  

This is our invitation and our shared practice for the coming weeks in our new series, Essential

Together, we will focus on what really matters and distill our lives for meaning.  We will practice hitting not just delete, but unsubscribe – without guilt or regret – on all those things that keep us from the “essential facts of life” – the essence of our own lives and of life itself.  

Join us this Sunday at 8:30 am for our traditional service, 10 am for our intergenerational outdoor service, or 9 am for our Zoom service. Learn more at foothillsuu.org/sunday.

In partnership and with love,

Rev. Gretchen

5 Things Happening at Foothills This Week!

1. Join us for our new series - Essential.

This Sunday, October 10th, we’re kicking off a new worship series – Essential! Together, we will focus on what really matters and distill our lives for meaning.  

CLICK HERE to join us Sunday! (We have FOUR services – two online and two in person!)

Read Rev. Gretchen’s invitation to Essential.

2. OWL is back 🎉

OWL for 8th & 9th Graders offers a unique opportunity for our youth to learn about all aspects of their sexuality – spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional – empowering them to make informed and healthy decisions about their sexual health and safety. 
 
Parents – if you are interested in having your child participate in 8th/9th Grade OWL, you must attend the parent orientation on October 20th from 6-8 pm. RSVP HERE.

3. Sing with Foothills Choir!

After 19 months of all-online choir, we are beginning the process of returning to singing together. The first choir rehearsal on October 5th was a blast, and we would love to have you join us for the next one this Tuesday, October 12th. No experience necessary. Please let us know you’re coming to rehearsal HERE.

4. Join an online Journey Group!

There is still space in two online Journey Groups starting soon!

Sundays, 11 am-12:30 pm on Zoom (starting 10/10), and

Mondays, 2-3:30 pm on Zoom (starting 10/11). 

Learn more and sign up HERE.

5. Feel Good Yoga

Join Foothills friends on Zoom for a weekly Saturday morning yoga and mindfulness practice. We begin by lighting a chalice, move through a gentle yoga flow and end with a guided meditation practice.

Join us for community, some movement, breath and centering. Click HERE to join on Zoom.

Transparency, Trust & Covid Exposure

For as many times as we have said to ourselves, the pandemic is not over; and despite the ways we continue to make adjustments and sacrifices to reduce the risk of virus transmission, many of us still have the sense that given our vaccination status and the high rates of vaccinations among those we interact with, it is basically over.  
 
Or at least, we can have this sense until it shows up a little closer in.  
 
This was our experience as a staff team last week, as our Director of Finance and Operations, Katie Watkins, and her family all became infected with COVID. Both Katie and her husband are vaccinated (with two different vaccines) and wear masks in all public settings. Their children are both too young to be vaccinated. All four of them have been symptomatic, and we are praying that it will remain mild and that they will recover quickly.  
 
Before their positive test results last Friday, they had each taken multiple tests in the prior few days that were negative. Again, many of us had heard that it was possible to test negative early and then positive after a few days. Still, until we had this experience among our community, we had forgotten how unreliable early testing can be. As a result, Katie, a few other staff members, and a couple of congregants were each in the office unmasked for some time in those days before the positive test. It wasn’t a long time, but it meant that when the positive test came, we notified all of those who had been there, and they, in turn, began their testing and isolation for at least five days post-exposure.
 
I am immensely grateful that we learned about Katie’s results on Friday rather than on a Monday since that would’ve meant she’d have been present on Sunday, creating an entirely different set of notification requirements. With returning to in-person services, we all must acknowledge that this is a likely possibility at some point. That one among us will test positive on Monday (maybe you find out you were exposed, maybe you start to have symptoms…) after being present on Sunday. This is one major reason we’ve kept up the registrations and check-ins for Sunday. We need to be able to reach out to you if we get the call from someone that they’ve tested positive after being at Sunday service. And, we want you to know that we want to hear from you if you are that person. Know that we will receive your call with compassion and understanding – because it really could be any of us. We know the vaccines are highly effective against major illness, and we also know now that they are less effective against infection itself. 
 
It’s important we acknowledge these risks openly – individually and collectively. We have decided as a congregation that these risks are worth it to have the opportunity to gather in person. But just because we are gathering, we should not have the impression that the risk is gone. If you haven’t looked at our COVID rates lately, check out the Larimer County page, or the COVID Act Now page. Both are sobering.  
 
While these experiences do not lessen our desire or resolve to gather in person, they have inspired a few changes in our safety protocols and our operations.  

  • Guidance for Foothills attendance post-exposure: we have added language stating that if you have been notified of COVID exposure (regardless of your vaccination status), please refrain from participating in Foothills events or groups for at least five days after the exposure regardless of your test results.
     
  • Masks required indoors at Foothills: we have stepped back the options for indoor mask-wearing, recognizing now how much of an impact any of our choices has on our whole community. We ask everyone to wear a mask while indoors. 
     
  • Non-Sunday Building partial closure through October 16: due to staffing shortages from illness and exposure, as well as safety concerns, we have decided to close the Foothills building through October 16, except for Sunday services. Outdoor meetings on the campus are fine; you can use the restroom if you have a key, but please help keep things clean and minimize your impact. We will not have office hours until October 16. We will continue our Sunday services as we have been for the last two weeks and hope to see you there! 

You can review all of our safety guidelines here.
 
Due to the impact on our staff team, we will likely be less responsive than we’d like during the next few weeks. We so appreciate your understanding and your partnership. If you have been waiting to step up to volunteer to help on Sundays, or with small groups, or in other ways in the church, Amy Gage would so love to hear from you and help you find a place! Email her at amy@foothillsuu.org. These times take all of us working together to care for each other and for our community.  
 
I know that this sort of letter isn’t the most pleasant and can cause some anxiety. But I also hope that our transparency helps to strengthen trust among us. I also want to underscore that through all of this, I am so grateful to be finding ways to gather again in person. While it is not without risk, what we are creating and discovering together in each gathering is beautiful, sustaining, and sacred. And, importantly, if you’re feeling less sure about the risks, our online presence remains robust and offers us another way to community, and wholeness, and the holy.  
 
Please reach out with your questions or reflections. I cannot always answer every email, but I always read every message and so appreciate hearing from you. (If I’m not getting back to you on something that’s time-sensitive, please don’t hesitate to reach out again or text me!) 
 
Most of all, I am grateful for you and for our community.  
 
With love,

Gretchen