Day: November 9, 2021

Kicking Off For the Future

We are a church that meets the challenges of now by planting seeds for the future.

  • You can see this in our work with ISAAC and Sanctuary Everywhere. We responded to the crisis of the Trump Administration’s anti-immigrant policies by sponsoring the interfaith sanctuary coalition. We nurtured that small organization, helping it to grow into the primary crisis support for immigrants in Northern Colorado during the pandemic with over $800,000 given out last year! All possible because we saw past the present moment of 2017 to envision a more possible future.
  • You can see this beginning now with our fiscal sponsorship of the BIPOC Alliance.
  • You can see this in our investment in Online Worship and Digital Ministry, our creative return to in-person services, our Wellspring Anti-Racism program…. 

We aren’t just providing tools to manage the present moment (which we are!); we are finding ways to be a part of creating the future. Which is why we’re thrilled to kick off For the Future, an initiative to ensure we can not only continue but also grow our programs, services, justice work, and more next year.

The future we are for is more beautiful than any of us can imagine individually. And you can be a part of continuing and growing this visionary work

With your pledge, you help us meet this moment – with all of its continued challenges – and create a more beautiful future.  

We don’t know what the future holds. We never do. But we know that with your partnership and your continued generosity, we will be unleashing courageous love in new and bolder ways than we can yet imagine.

In partnership,

Rev. Gretchen

Making Peace with What Haunts Us: Day 1

“Allow” by Danna Faulds

There is no controlling life.
Try corralling a lightning bolt,
containing a tornado.  Dam a
stream and it will create a new
channel.  Resist, and the tide
will sweep you off your feet.
Allow, and grace will carry
you to higher ground.  The only
safety lies in letting it all in –
the wild and the weak; fear,
fantasies, failures and success.
When loss rips off the doors of
the heart, or sadness veils your
vision with despair, practice
becomes simply bearing the truth.
In the choice to let go of your
known way of being, the whole
world is revealed to your new eyes.

As humans, we often attempt to control our feelings – to micromanage our reactions to memories, seasons, songs, and more. Chris Germer and Kristin Neff who developed the idea of mindful self-compassion suggest that two steps are required before we can create space for our ghosts – before we can allow, which will in turn make room for the next steps.

Step One: Soften
We need to release our resistance to the feelings, memories, regrets, uncertainties that visit us. Drawing on Rumi, we need to let the guests that knock at our door in. We can’t come to terms with our ghosts if we slam the door in their faces.

Step Two: Soothe
We need to offer ourselves and our ghosts loving-kindness. We need to embrace that whatever we’re experiencing – any thought, feeling, haunting – is a normal part of being human.

Only after these two steps can we allow – create space for our ghosts – so that we can compassionately move through them or integrate them.

Practice
Over the next few days, I invite you to practice softening and soothing. When you are visited by a ghost, first, sit with it. Invite it in. Notice how it feels in your body. Next, practice soothing. Consciously remind yourself that what you are experiencing is a normal part of being human. Things cling to us. It can take years to move through our ghosts. We may have ghosts that come and go over time. And that’s okay. Tell yourself, “What I’m experiencing is a normal part of being human. I offer myself, including my ghosts, kindness and compassion.”