Year: 2023 (Page 4 of 8)

The Building Bulletin: July 2023

Work is wrapping up on the construction site. The stucco is complete, providing a beautiful view of the finished west side of the building as you drive down Drake Street.  At long last, we can see what we’ve been working towards for so long.

The construction fencing was removed on July 5. One of the next steps is to repair the lower parking lot and create concrete paths leading from the lot to the building. The fence was removed to make room for machinery. This is still an active construction site. The contractor will put out cones and caution tape.
Please respect these minimal barriers. There will be heavy equipment doing grading along Drake Street, and there is still a large hole where our detention pond/rain garden will be. Please make sure your children understand the dangers and know to avoid the area. Construction equipment can be very alluring but also very dangerous. We have made it this far with no accidents, and we’d like to finish up on a happy note.  

On the interior, there will be a hold-up while we wait for the air handling unit to arrive. The carpeting and wood for the sanctuary must acclimate in the actual environment for a week before it can be installed. This means completing our new entryway and the sanctuary will have to wait until mid-August. 

The Administration wing remodel is almost complete. In the new entryway, we have started painting and repairing the walls and ceiling. The temporary wall has been cut down. At this time, there is a plastic sheet obstructing the view, but soon you will be able to look over it to see the sanctuary. To reiterate, this is still a construction site. The wall will not be completely removed until access is allowed. Until then, please respect the boundary.

The elevator in the Chalice Wing has been installed and is almost functional. The basement is nearing completion. The wiring for the new AV system is being installed. We are doing everything we can while we wait for deliveries.

We can’t obtain a Certificate of Occupancy (CO) until the HVAC is installed, tested, and inspected. Once we get the OK on the sprinkler system from the fire department, we can apply for a Temporary CO (TCO).  The inspection will occur soon after the 4th. The TCO  allows us to store the new chairs when they arrive and start learning the workings of the new sound system. It does not allow free access to the new sanctuary.

There are many details to be finished up, but everything is going smoothly and quickly.  We can start looking forward to our grand opening in September!

TV Recommendations with Rev. Gretchen: Nine New Shows

It’s June, which means this is my last post in this series! I hope you’ve enjoyed watching tv over the last few weeks.  

The amazing thing about TV right now is that great shows come out every day, and new discoveries of brilliance, originality, and creativity are constantly possible. Which is amazing and also sometimes overwhelming because it can be hard to keep up and track all that’s out there that is worth watching. To help focus on some of the best brand-new shows, I offer this list of recommendations, all of which have dropped in 2023, as my last post and as a reminder to keep watching tv! 

Nine New Shows

  1. The Diplomat (Netflix, 8 episodes, 50 minutes)  Keri Russell stars in this entirely compelling story of a diplomat accustomed to behind-the-scenes nitty-gritty thrown into a high-profile ambassador position as a test run for being recruited into the vice presidency. Despite this serious-sounding premise, this is a super fun show, in a tone similar to the West Wing or the Newsroom, that is both geo-political intrigue and romantic comedy. Keri Russell is perpetually sweaty yet somehow always gorgeous and her husband is somehow slimy, and yet you can’t also kind of root for him. This is definitely one of those shows it’s hard to stop watching once you start.  
  2. The Last of Us (HBO, 9 episodes, 45-75 minutes) – Don’t let the “adapted from a video game” OR the “zombie apocalypse” part of this show stop you from giving it a try. I am generally not oriented to either of these genres, but still found this an emotionally rich and compelling story, mixed with a sort of buddy-road-trip vibe for our two main characters, Joel and Ellie, who are trying to get across the devastated country with the hope for a cure for the fungal virus that has decimated so many.  A couple of the episodes in this series provide truly brilliant acting and storytelling that you don’t want to miss.  I have some mixed feelings about the ending, but definitely already look forward to season 2.
  3. Daisy Jones & The Six (Amazon Prime, 10 episodes, 50 minutes)  This story of a (fictional) 1970s band in their rise and fall, as well as their personal relationships of love and chaos behind the scenes. Featuring original music, a cast that spent a lot of time rehearsing together (and it shows), and a stunning lead in Riley Keough, also known as Elvis Pressley’s granddaughter.  I thoroughly enjoyed this show, even if it is sometimes predictable and light, the music is great and the acting is compelling.  
  4. Will Trent (Hulu/ABC, 13 episodes, 50 minutes) – This is an extremely satisfying and easy-to-watch variation on the “guy who is really good at solving crimes” genre a la the Mentalist, Monk, or Psych, starring the compelling Ramon Rodriguez alongside Erika Christensen (who I always root for as an actress) as his “we don’t date” lifelong love interest. While this show isn’t breaking new ground, it is a highly entertaining procedural with a strong cast (probably stronger than the material they are working, including the brilliant Sonja Sohn and underutilized LisaGay Hamilton) and a throughline story that keeps you engaged. 
  5. Class of ‘07 (Amazon Prime, 8 episodes, 30 minutes) – This would probably be on my “this show isn’t for everyone list,” but if you’re into irreverent apocalyptic high school reunion stories, this Australian series is definitely for you. Set at an all-girls school reunion where suddenly they all realize they will be spending the end of their days with the people they least want to hang out with again, this show is absurd, goofy, sometimes gross, and also totally engaging and fun to watch. This show takes a while to find its rhythm, but the ensemble cast keeps you coming back, and by the second half, it feels fun and fresh.
  6. Poker Face (Peacock, 10 episodes, 50-60 minutes) – The main reason to watch this show is Natasha Lyonne, who you’ll know from Russian Doll, Orange is the New Black, or maybe further back in American Pie. She holds an undeniable charisma, such that even you’ll stick with the slower parts of this series just to find out how she fares in the end.  Lyonne plays Charlie Cale, a casino worker who also happens to be a human lie detector.  Wherever she goes, she also happens to find herself entangled in murder and mystery, which she inevitably ends up solving before moving on to the next adventure. If you’re getting Columbo vibes, that’s not an accident, as the creators reference that show along with others that use a “howcatchem” structure where you know who did it from the beginning of the episode, but the drama of the series is how they will be caught.  This pattern can get a little too predictable, and they wait a little too long to bring the long arc mystery back into play, but this is still a highly entertaining and fun crime drama, especially, again, because Lyonne is just too fun to watch.  
  7. Dead Ringers (Amazon Prime, 6 episodes, 50-60 minutes) – High-camp horror is my best description of this show, which I’m not sure sells it very well.  For me, the ick factor is overcome by the curiosity factor, as we hope to learn what identical twins Elliot and Beverly Mantle have planned for their women’s health / highly experimental reproductive laboratory once they can secure the needed funding. Rachel Weisz offers an amazing, chilling performance as the twins, as the show takes us on a gorgeous, weird, unexpected, and emotionally complex journey, building steadily towards the finale. Theoretically based on the 1988 film starring Jeremy Irons, by changing the gender to women, there is an extra layer of commentary about female control and agency, highly relevant to our world today.  
  8. The Night Agent (Netflix, 10 episodes, 50 minutes) – I’m realizing my list is heavy on the crime/political intrigue genre…not sure why that is, except that sometimes these can feel like comfort food when there’s a lot going on in the world. The Night Agent is a very solid entry in this genre, telling the story of a highly loyal CIA Agent who ends up in over his head attempting to uncover the traitor within the white house.  This show is smart without being overly complicated, and Hong Chau, who generally makes everything she’s in better, is great fun as star Gabriel Basso’s Peter Sutherland’s main contact.  
  9. Tiny Beautiful Things (Hulu, 8 episodes, 30 minutes) –  If you enjoyed Cheryl Strayed story in Wild (either book or movie), this is a little like a sequel, as it follows Strayed’s life as she becomes the author of the advice column, Dear Sugar – although slightly fictionalized into the character of Claire. The two leads – Kathryn Hahn as Claire now and Sarah Pidgeon as Claire as a young adult – are both doing great work as they work to keep the tone from being way way way too much and instead land on “much.” This is what Claire is – she’s messy and still struggling to become the person she wanted to be, even at 50, and yet also finding herself giving other people advice. I’m guessing her messiness will make this a show not for everyone too, but if you’re a Kathryn Hahn fan in any sense and/or are looking for a witty tearjerker, this show is for you.

A Year of Music-Making and Community-Building

Wow, it has been an incredible year for music ministry at Foothills! It’s hard for be to believe that my first visit to the church was one year ago this week. In the 10 months since I started serving as your music director, we have shared so many incredible experiences together. Let’s take a moment to appreciate some of the musical highlights of the past year:

Benjamin’s first rehearsal with the choir during his interview in June.

In August, the Foothills Choir started up again after a period of dormancy during the pandemic. The choir’s first project was preparing music for a celebration of life ceremony for longtime Foothills member and retired choir director, Bob Mollison. We were joined by former students of Bob’s from around the country, bolstering the choir to over 40 singers, as well as guest musicians from the local Front Range Chamber Players.

Special music for our annual Water Ceremony at the Drake Center.
In September we held our annual Water Ceremony at the Drake Center, where a small group of Foothills musicians provided special music for the service, including premiering an original song that Steve Sedam wrote for the occasion.
The Global Peace & Justice Pick-up Choir sings a Ukrainian protest song.
Later that month, we partnered with the church’s Global Peace & Justice Team to host a film screening of “The Singing Revolution,” the story of Estonia’s non-violent, musical independence movement. Attendees had a chance to learn and sing some historic Estonian and Ukrainian protest songs. In October we held a follow-up event, the Global Peace & Justice Pick-up Choir, where participants learned protest songs and choral music from around the world, then shared those songs in Sunday services as a call for peace in Ukraine and around the world.
Singing along the rim of the Grand Canyon at sunset.
In November, we took our music ministry on the road as a part of the Foothills Grand Canyon Retreat! Every night of the retreat, participants gathered along the rim of the Canyon to sing songs of gratitude and love of nature, and every night we attracted tourists to sing with us who weren’t even a part of the retreat! This month also saw the return of our candlelit Vespers Services, which combined prayer, ritual, and music to create beautiful evening worship experiences. These services featured musical meditations that included didgeridoo, drums, various string instruments, and chants from the ecumenical Taizé community.
The Foothills Choir rehearsing Christmas and Hanukkah songs before the service.
Foothills’ Holiday Children’s Choir performing in services.

The holidays season at Foothills was filled with festive music! Worship services in December featured the Foothills Choir and our Holiday Children’s Choir, who shared modern and traditional holiday songs for both Christmas and Hanukkah. We also held a special special Winter Solstice vespers service with music celebrating the darkness and turning of the seasons, led by the Foothills Madrigals. Services on Christmas Eve were full of congregational songs woven throughout the Christmas story, as well as carols led by youth singers from our community.

Foothills’ caroling group arrives to sing at Columbine Senior Living.
Outside of services, a group of Foothills carolers also shared holiday songs and stories with the residents at Columbine Senior Living, another longtime Foothills tradition that returned this year after being on pause during the pandemic.
Foothills members marching at the MLK Jr. Day march in downtown Fort Collins.

In January, we held our first-ever MLK Jr. Day Pick-up Choir! This event invited people to sing protest songs from the American civil rights movement, learn the stories behind the music, and explore how the legacy of those songs lives on today. We had a record turnout, with over 40 singers from ages 10 to 90 years old! The singers then shared some of the songs we learned during services on MLK Jr. Day weekend, then took to the streets to sing at Fort Collins’ MLK Jr. Day March. Singers from Foothills led singing and chanting all along the route of the march, joining our voices with members of the wider community to call for justice and equal protection for all people.

Local drag queen Krisa Gonna performing during Sunday services.

In February, we launched a new worship series, GenderFluent, which was all about exploring the sacred mysteries surrounding Gender identity and expression. As a part of this series, we welcomed local drag queen Krisa Gonna, who gave an incredible performance in our Sunday services! The Foothills Choir also led the congregation in singing “You Are Loved,” an incredible choral anthem with words by our very own Rev. Gretchen. This series was so well received that we have adapted it into a curriculum––including all of the songs, hymns, and special music that were a part of our services––which other churches can use to start conversations around gender in their own communities.

In April, we held the Active Hope Pick-up Choir, part of a series exploring how we can work through climate despair to create meaningful change to protect the earth. The Pick-up Choir learned songs from Earth-based spiritual traditions, climate justice protest songs, and the stirring anthem, “Hallelujah for the Earth.” These songs served as the focal point for discussion around feelings of climate grief and loss and also served as a rousing call to action. Sharing these songs in our Earth Day services with the Pick-up Choir was one of my highlights of the spring!

A group of Foothills musicians on Music Sunday.

In May, we closed out the year with an incredible All-Music Sunday! These services were made up entirely of music suggested by members of our community, ranging from folk songs and renaissance madrigals, to pop music and original compositions, performed by all of our choirs, plus several special groups of singers and instrumentalists. The church was filled with joyous music and with people coming together to celebrate the songs we love. It was a beautiful way to end the season!
 
Looking ahead, the music ministries at Foothills have so much to look forward to next year! Planning is already underway for special music for the grand opening of our new sanctuary in September, including guest musicians and new songs presented by the Foothills Choir, plus an opportunity to get involved with music for the first services in the new space! In the coming months, I will also have some amazing news to share about the return of the Children’s Choir in the fall, an upcoming musical collaboration between the Foothills Choir and another group in our community, and information about opportunities to perform in an inaugural concert in the new sanctuary!
 
Thank you for being a part of this incredible year of music-making and community-building at Foothills. I can’t wait to continue singing with you in the years to come!

Benjamin Hanson, Music Director
benjamin@foothillsuu.org

June 2023 Series Invitation: Sit By Me

About this time last year, Carri and I started saying a new mantra to ourselves: leave the house.  
 
It was kind of a joke, kind of not – because we recognized that we had fallen into some new habits during the pandemic that made it more likely that we would barely leave our home most days. Some days, we realized we’d barely left our living room. 
 
Especially since, at the time, she and I were primarily working at home, there just wasn’t a requirement to leave in the ways there were pre-pandemic, and even though we weren’t feeling COVID-cautious about being out in the world, it felt like there was just some sort of gravitational force field keeping us from leaving.  
 
And yet, at the same time, we also recognized an increasing sense of loneliness and desire for more personal connections and social time with people other than each other. We complained about not having people to hang out with, and we even joined a couple of meet-up lists that seemed to align with our interests….yet nothing changed. And the main reason for this, we had to acknowledge, is that we didn’t really leave our house.  
 
This is all a true story I am confessing here, and also I think it’s a good metaphor for the challenges of belonging. Humans are wired for social connection. We need it like we need food, air, and shelter. And yet, there is something about life today that has us caught more often than not in cycles of isolation, disconnection, and loneliness. We all struggle to leave our (metaphorical and sometimes literal) house. We struggle with the awkwardness and vulnerability required to create real and lasting relationships. We struggle to prioritize the relationships we already have. And sometimes, we struggle to know just how real belonging could and should happen in today’s theoretically hyper-connected world.  
 
This was all true before the pandemic. Studies showing increasing isolation and social disconnection started popping up in the 1990s, as exemplified by the scholarship of Robert Putnam’s Bowling Alone. These trends increased over the early 2000s. Social media has given us the illusion (and serotonin boost) of belonging while rarely delivering on humans’ deeper needs for intimacy, meaning, and purpose – all components of true belonging. The pandemic (as with many other things) accelerated and complicated what was already true. As Surgeon General Vivek Murthy puts it in his 2023 report, our country is now experiencing an “epidemic of loneliness and isolation.”  
 
For all the many ways our church is called to respond to life today, the challenge of belonging and community feels the most central to me. Because belonging is something that people come to Foothills seeking most of all. It is one of the most urgent questions on their hearts (whether they could or would articulate it that way or not), and that is true whether it is their first time showing up on a Sunday or they’ve been coming for decades. The longing for true belonging is life-long. It evolves but doesn’t go away.  
 
For all these reasons, we are excited to spend the month of June exploring a series on belonging. A series we call Sit By Me. Because ultimately, studies show that the best way to experience belonging is to invite someone else into it with you. To recognize that belonging starts within ourselves. To discern the underlying beliefs that get in the way of belonging and to shift those. To practice belonging like a leap of faith. A leap we can all take together.  

This Sunday, I invite you all to leave the house (virtually or IRL) to help us launch our series with the 100th anniversary of the Unitarian Flower Ceremony at 9:30 AM. We’ve saved you a seat.

With love,

Rev. Gretchen

TV Recommendations with Rev. Gretchen: Shows That Aren’t For Everyone But Might Be For You

It happens quite often that I end up loving a show that I won’t recommend to everyone.  Because it is particularly gory, explicit, or just plain weird, or really heavy in one genre (esp sci-fi or fantasy) that some people just don’t like. But then again, these shows are also often incredibly original, fascinating, creative, and entertaining.  And so I offer this list of shows that I highly recommend, with the caveat that they may not be for you. But maybe, try them anyway, give them a shot, and try to appreciate them for what they are uniquely trying to do.  Or….don’t. 🙂 

10 Shows That Aren’t For Everyone but Might Be For You

  1. Pen15 (Hulu, 2 Seasons, 10-15 episodes/season, 25-35 mins) This Hulu gem is nonstop cringy comedy.  Mostly because the (adult) actors – Maya Erskine and Anna Konkle – are all in for a real and hard telling of middle school life in the late 90s/early 2000s, which is incredibly cringe-worthy. Just look at the title of the series as one example – middle school cringe! And still, Erskine is so fearless in her acting I can’t look away. This is one of the best stories of tween/teen best friends and how so much can be survived if you just have someone who will be there for you, no matter what. I should also mention that all the other actors who are not Erskine and Konkle are age appropriate (i.e. mostly actual middle schoolers), which only underscores what a strange, awkward, and often painful time middle school is for all of us.
  2. Jessica Jones (Netflix, 3 Seasons, 13 episodes/seasons, 45-55 mins) This show is on this list because its entire premise needs a trigger warning. While it is a show about (baddie) superhero Jessica Jones, it is also a show about a woman who has been forced to do thing against her will by a truly horrendous villain. With that said, I had been waiting for Krysten Ritter to get a successful show of her own for a long time after admiring her work in Breaking Bad and The B in Apartment 23, and so I was immediately taken in by this series about a superhero who doesn’t want to be a superhero – and it does not disappoint. The storyline is (as I said) dark, dark, dark, but the ride is fast and surprising and often gloriously entertaining.  Special bonus to see Mike Colter out of his drug-kingpin-role from The Good Wife and show up as the super-hottie Luke Cage. The series, on the whole, probably went a little long (funny to say for just three seasons), but ultimately became an incredible exploration of what it means to be a hero, the quest (and problems) of power, and the desire to control. It is a story of trauma, and healing, and the possibility of doing better.  
  3. Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Hulu, 7 Seasons, 22 episodes/season, 44 mins) and 4. Angel (Hulu, 5 Seasons, 22 episodes/season, 44 mins) I put these together because if you haven’t watched them, then you probably batch them together in your mind as shows you won’t watch because vampires….which is legitimate. Buffy, and its spinoff Angel, are both set in worlds where vampires exist, as do vampire slayers. And so, if that’s a deal breaker for you….let me see if I can convince you to give it a shot anyway. Twenty-five years after it first premiered, Buffy remains a funny, tragic, brilliant tv show exploring the idea that high school is literally hell. Buffy (despite what you might think given her name…and that’s part of the show’s feminist commentary where the young blonde is not killed by the monster as per usual horror tropes, but is instead the enduring heroine) is a powerful, strong, complex hero, and friend, who is actually just trying to grow up, despite being the hope for humanity’s salvation. Buffy is helped by her friends Willow, Xander, Oz, Anya, and her lover/vampire-with-a-soul Angel (he of the spinoff). Over the course of seven seasons, the core friendships grow and shift; there is love, there is loss, and there is grief, and occasionally there is glory, as the world is saved by Buffy and her friends, over and over. As the characters grow up, the storyline becomes progressively darker, and more ambitious, and more complex – just like adulthood often feels as you try to find your way. A number of its episodes are singularly brilliant – including one where everyone in town loses their voices, so the entire episode is silent, and another where a spell forces everyone to sing their feelings, resulting in an entirely musical episode. Angel, the LA-based spinoff centered on Buffy’s doomed vampire lover, is even more oriented towards friendship, as Angel finds his own circle of vampire-fighting outcasts, including Buffy’s once-nemesis, Cordelia. While this show starts as a pretty straightforward crime-solving detective agency show, each of the seasons shakes things up so thoroughly that by the last season, it feels like a workplace drama set in a law firm.  Along the way, Angel and his friends end up getting co-opted by the very system they originally intended to undo and upend. This arc makes Angel a pretty compelling critique of capitalism, in addition to its central strength as an ensemble show of friendship, loyalty, and self-sacrifice. I don’t know if I convinced you to check out these shows if you haven’t before, but for everyone who has already seen them, maybe it’s time to watch them again?!
  4. Firefly (Hulu, 1 Season, 14 episodes, 42 mins) Speaking of Joss Whedon….this (unfortunately) short-run show has been billed as a western set in space…which is why it is on this list.  Starring a pre-Castle (and much cooler IMHO) Nathan Fillion as Malcom Reynolds, Firefly is set 500 years in the future and follows the crew of the Serenity, which includes a preacher, a mechanic, a doctor, and a sex worker (they say “courtesan”), as they travel from planet to planet. They are bandits, mostly, but with a heart (again, mostly), as they seek to resist the corrupt and authoritarian government ruling the skies. Firefly is a relatively easy watch – it has a pretty easy-to-follow storyline, and the banter is typical Whedon wit and comedy. Although Fillion is clearly the lead, the female characters on this show are what really sell me – Zoe, the first mate, is a complete badass (Gina Torres), and Morena Baccarin’s strong and also vulnerable portrayal of sex worker Inara had me regularly watching for when her eventual breakout part would be – although I’m not sure it ever really happened. (Maybe her part in Homeland for which she was nominated for an Emmy?) Some parts of the show haven’t aged well – the mis- appropriation of the Chinese language, for example, or the way Mal repeatedly and often cruelly refers to Inara as a whore. But if you add in the movie Serenity, which was created as a way to thread together the storylines after it was shockingly canceled mid-season, Firefly continues to be a deeply satisfying, and highly imaginative, and entertaining show set in the future, but with plenty of resonance for our world today.  
  5. Dollhouse (Hulu, 2 Seasons, 12-13 episodes/season, 60 mins)  Rounding out the Joss Whedon batch in this list is Dollhouse, definitely the weirdest of the group and maybe the most problematic. Starring Eliza Dushku (who also starred on Buffy off and on, but as a different character) as Echo, Dollhouse takes the idea of prostitution to an entirely new level, wherein the person you are paying to “date” can literally become any person you want them to be, by way of super powerful mind wiping/re-programming devices (of course). Each “doll” consents to being a part of the dollhouse before undergoing the mind-wiping, or at least that is what we are told, and so you are left with questions of consent, not unlike the ones posed by the 2022 Apple TV series Severance. This is where this show definitely becomes not for everyone. The various “engagements” that the “actives” (both men and women, by the way) are assigned to often go wrong, which over time ends up connecting to Echo’s slow rediscovery of her past self. One of the biggest original criticisms of the show was that the lack of a central character to connect with made it hard to get into (because all of the characters are “wiped” clean every week). I wonder if we are used enough to unusual narratives now (almost 15 years later) that this would be less of an obstacle. Personally, I found that if you stuck with the show long enough, Echo’s story begins to emerge, and it is completely worth it. To me, it always felt like the show knew and was actively exploring its own moral ambiguity, and it is attempting to comment on our willingness to justify anything by way of “someone paid for it” and/or “it was their choice.” Like a number of other shows on this list, Dollhouse is dark and strange and not nearly as quippy and witty as Whideon’s other shows, but it is also bolder, more experimental, and still with some incredible supporting actors. Amy Acker (previously of Angel) and Enver Gjokaj (why won’t anyone give him a great part?!) are particular standouts, mixing tragic and funny, and subtle commentary. Ultimately this show asks some big, difficult questions about the human soul and what makes a person a person. It’s weird and sometimes really hard to watch (and sometimes slow), but I really recommend you give Dollhouse a chance. And let me know what you think.  
  6. Orphan Black (Amazon Prime, 5 Seasons, 10 episodes/season, 43 mins) I put Orphan Black next on this list because there are some interesting connection points in its storyline. Except that instead of mind-wiping and personality replacement, Orphan Black brings us cloning – but in both cases, there remains a real question about consent and an ongoing critique of power and control. The background in Orphan Black begins with a genetics company, Neolution, which secretly perfected human cloning, made two projects (male and female), and then funneled the men into the military and the women into the world without any knowledge about any of this. The plot centers around one of the female clones, Sarah, who discovers to her own shock, that she is a clone, which starts her on a process of finding her “sisters” and uncovering the truth of their origin, as well as the bigger why behind Neoloution, including religious organizations and profit-seeking capitalists. I have now certainly revealed why this show isn’t for everyone, but let me tell you why it might be for you. Tatiana Maslany, the star of the show, is revolutionary. Watching her at work is constantly breathtaking and mind-bending. Equally worthwhile is the writing, which is nuanced and complex in its characterizations so that each clone is truly her own story that you feel compelled by and connected to. One of the sub-themes of the show is around motherhood, as Sarah and her brother Felix (the fabulous Jordan Gavaris) are foster/adopted siblings of the more-to-her-than-you-think Mrs. S (badass Maria Doyle Kennedy), and the fertility of the clones and their potential to be mothers is always in the background of the series, as is the ongoing question of nurture and nature, especially given how completely different each of these “clones” truly is. This show is also incredibly nerdy (more than just everything I’ve said so far) with references to Greek mythology, Charles Darwin, Francis Bacon, Margaret Thatcher’s government, feminist and scientist Donna Haraway, and George Bernard Shaw’s Pygmalion, to name just a few! Don’t let this nerdiness make you think this show is slow or not fun – it moves quickly and imaginatively across its whole run – it’s a brilliant, highly original powerhouse of a show, maybe a show just perfect for you.  Or…not.
  7. Euphoria (HBO/Max, 2 Seasons, 10 episodes/season, 45-60 mins) I started watching this show because my teenage daughter was watching this show, and I wanted to make sure we could talk about it together. It is theoretically a show about teenagers and being in high school, but it is also an incredibly adult show exploring addiction, grief, sexuality, and identity. One NPR article I read called it “a parent’s nightmare,” and in a lot of ways, that is true. Especially for the relationship between Rue (glorious, vulnerable, grief-stricken, drugged-out Zendaya) and her mom, Leslie (Nika King). And also for the dangerous, self-destructive, downright dumb choices that these teenagers make over and over when it comes to relationships, alcohol and drug use, sex, and their very casual relationship with the truth. Other than the drugs, most of these risky choices are made by characters other than Rue – her friends and classmates that make up the world of Euphoria that would make any of us wonder why we’d ever want to parent teenagers.  And also, in most of these cases, the lack of parenting is often a major factor, as the adults are caught up in their own drama, and ego, and their own poor choices. Except for Rue, whose story is mostly one of grief, of losing her father to cancer when she was too young. And except for Jules (the luminous Hunter Shaffer), the (trans) girl who Rue loves and who is simply trying to find her way to self-confidence and self-actualization after her own mother’s addiction and poor choices. With all that said, the second season veers (for my taste) too often into self-indulgent soap opera tropes (i.e. predictable love triangles) and not enough into character development for Jules and Rue. Ultimately, in its portrayal of drug addiction and its impact on real lives, this show is often too painful, scary, and vulnerable – and not for everyone. And, in its brave and raw characters, yearning for joy and connection (even if by way of explicit/illicit attempts at getting high) it is also a show of singular creativity, bold imagination, and audacious beauty, and maybe for you.  
  8. True Blood (HBO, 7 Seasons, 10-12 episodes/season, 52 mins) Here’s another show that may not be for you because vampires. But in this case, it’s more adult/drama vampires than witty teenage vampires, and may also not be for you because of lots of blood and, in some cases, pretty explicit sex. In this world, vampires live alongside the living due to the invention of a synthetic blood that allows them to “come out,” and yes, they do regularly work with the gay parallel/metaphor that this implies. This series centers around telepathic waitress Sookie Stackhouse (Anna Paquin) and vampire Bill (Stephen Moyer, Paquin’s then real-life love). The first season of True Blood is genuinely great, mixing intentional camp with real romance with erotic thriller and mystery. A few seasons in, it isn’t quite as steady, but still mostly enjoyable for a while, especially given the presence of the beautiful Alexander Skarsgard as the deplorable and gorgeous vampire Eric. 
  9. Bridgerton (Netflix, 2 Seasons, 8 episodes/season, 57-72 mins) Looking over this list, I realized I was a little too sci fi/fantasy/dark plots heavy. When really, just as many people will tell me how much they don’t like cheesy romance as will resist weird vampires. Which is what led me to include this pleasure romp as my number 10. Produced by tv mastermind Shonda Rhimes, Bridgerton is like Jane Austen meets Scandal in that it is both playing on the edges of what is acceptable and what is forbidden and also filled with formal dances, corsets, curtsies in front of Queens, as well as the potential of whole lives being destroyed if a man and a woman are seen kissing in public. Season two is slower and less explicit than season one, but still pretty good. Season one is delectable and also I’m going to just say now that no Bridgerton character will ever be as hot as Hot Duke Simon (Regé-Jean Page). While there is a little bit of commentary going on in this show, given that it offers an interracial monarchy (and aristocracy), it is mostly a show centered on pleasure for pleasure’s sake and downright escapism. Not for everyone, but a complete joy for the most devoted readers. IYKYK.
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