Year: 2023 (Page 5 of 8)

The Building Bulletin: May 2023

We are getting closer and closer to enjoying our new sanctuary! The exterior of the building is reaching its final phases. The stucco workers are installing window trim and mesh in preparation for the stucco application. The stucco is applied in three layers, so don’t panic about its appearance during the application process. It will look great when finished. The first layer is called the scratch coat. It is a cement layer with horizontal lines scratched into it. It covers everything underneath and gives the next layer a good bonding surface. It will be gray and not very attractive. The second layer is the brown coat. It levels everything out and provides a smooth surface for the final coat. The last layer is the finish layer. This is the layer that contains the color.

On the grounds, we’ll be creating our detention pond area. We call it a pond, but in reality, it is more of a rain garden, a grassy area along Drake that will catch the water draining off the roof and control runoff.  After the detention pond is built, we will reinstall the big sign that was located on Drake Street before construction.  The sign was damaged slightly when removed, so we’ll take this opportunity to refurbish it a bit, changing to our current logo and fix the damage.

You may have noticed that the sidewalk work has not been completed as planned.  Early in the development process, we agreed with the city to try a different type of sidewalk replacement that would fulfill ADA requirements but allow us to avoid pulling out all the shrubbery along Yorktown Ave. This installation did not work as planned, so we will have to do some additional street patching, and progress has been held up. The expected completion date is now June 5.

We are still trying to obtain a permit to connect the new sanctuary’s water line for the fire suppression system to the water main under Drake Street. We hope the sidewalk, water line, and final site work will be completed by the end of June.  
There has also been a lot going on inside. If you were in church on Memorial Day Weekend, you saw that work has started in the admin area. Demolition is complete, and the remodeling work there should be completed by the end of June. During the admin remodel, the office has been partially relocated to a classroom in the RE building. Please note that drop-in office hours are paused during June. Staff remain available to help and meet but are working off-site, so please email hello@foothillsuu.org to make an appointment if you need to meet with a staff member. You can also email the staff member you need to meet with directly. All staff emails can be found at foothillsuu.org/staff.

In the sanctuary itself, plywood has been installed on the stage. The flooring won’t be installed until after the air handling unit is in place, but this gives us a better view of the final appearance and access to the backstage area. 

The gender-neutral bathroom is almost complete. There is tile on the walls, and fixtures have been installed. Next is a countertop, sinks, and toilet partitions. Outside the bathroom, we have water fountains and a water bottle filling station!

Even more exciting is the elevator shaft. The cab is on-site, and the base to hold it has been installed, so we are very close to having a working elevator providing access to the lower floor of the Education building and to the basement under the new addition. We have had an empty elevator shaft since the last building update in 1997. It gratifying to see it finally put to use, allowing us to provide a more welcoming experience for all who enter our building.
We’re very pleased to see so many things wrapping up by July. Many of you have had the opportunity to see our new sanctuary. It is a beautiful, serene space that should serve us well for years to come.

The Communicator: Church News May 2023

TV Recommendations with Rev. Gretchen: Shows Worth (Re)Discovering

Whether you missed it when it first came out, or it’s just been a while, some shows are worth returning to, even after they’ve concluded their run. Sometimes it feels oddly revolutionary to watch a show long after “everyone” is talking about it – but a great show is a great show, regardless of when you watch it. So I’m thrilled to share this list of shows that are done and yet always great – and if it is your first time watching this show, I am so jealous! I’ve tried to include a mix of genres and feels, so even if the dark anti-hero of Breaking Bad (for example) isn’t for you. You can instead turn to something like the feel-good Friday Night Lights! Or…vice versa. 

15 Shows Worth (Re)Discovering

  1. Friday Night Lights (Netflix, 5 Seasons, 13-22 episodes/season, 2006): Sometimes, I think of this as the show that prepared me to be a good mom to my son. Friday Night Lights refers to the lights on the football field and the small town often-high stakes dramas that play out there every Friday night. Except that the real game isn’t about touchdowns. It is about poverty, racism, school funding, and abortion. It is about trying to help kids in rural Texas find a future and what it takes to have a real marriage (as seen in the still-enviable couple, Eric and Tami Taylor). 
  2. The Wire (HBO/Max, 5 Seasons, 10-13 episodes/season, 2002): One of the best shows exploring both the strengths of community policing and the real and lasting pitfalls, and one of the best shows ever, period. The Wire is set in Baltimore and explores with real complexity and humanity narratives about police, drug dealers, teachers, dockworkers, politicians, and journalists. It humanizes and complexifies whatever stereotypes you might have about these characters and systems. It repeatedly reveals how these systems may have good intentions and yet fail to solve the issues they mean to address – whether due to corruption, ineptitude, or a lack of money, or pure bad luck. The actors and the characters they portrayed have stayed with me over the years – I’ll never forget the terrifying and yet tender Omar, played with fierce authenticity by Michael K. Williams. Even though this show is now 20 years old, it remains incredibly relevant and real. 
  3. Breaking Bad (Netflix, 5 Seasons, 7-13 episodes/season, 2008): Usually, when people tell me they haven’t watched this show, it’s with an acknowledgment that they just found the premise too difficult to watch, which makes sense. This is a show about a high school math teacher who gets a terminal cancer diagnosis, and so to provide for his family after he is gone, he starts cooking meth. As a result, there are plenty of scenes showing the horrific impact of drugs on families and whole communities, and there is violence and there is the very real impact on his own family in his continued and increasing lies. So I get it if it isn’t for you. However….embedded in this difficult and sometimes all-too-real material is a story about human nature, our will to power, and what becomes acceptable to us after we cross that first moral line. I haven’t watched Breaking Bad since it ended in 2013, but having just finished its (brilliant) spin-off Better Call Saul, I’m getting ready to start it again. 
  4. Six Feet Under (HBO/Max, 5 Seasons, 13 episodes/season, 2001): More than 20 years later, this show based around a family that runs a funeral home and that begins every episode with a death, remains groundbreaking. First, because we still don’t talk about grief and death as a society and the show offers an unflinching account of some of the practicalities, the laughter, the fear, the loss, and the very real decisions that must be made through it all.  And second, because of the issues they tackled throughout the series in many cases remain underexplored all these years later. For example, even though we’ve had a lot of gay characters since then, the character David’s coming out still remains one of the most nuanced portrayals of later in-life coming out that I’ve seen on tv.
  5. The Americans (Hulu, 6 Seasons, 13 episodes/season, 2013): I’m surprised more people don’t talk about this fascinating show about two undercover Russian KGB agents who have made a family in the US, set in the early 80s / Cold War prime time. Keri Russell is brilliant and emotionally available even while playing an often emotionally inaccessible character. Matthew Rhys portrays a complex loyalty between country and family in every scene. It’s a spy show, but it’s really about marriage, trust, and how much truth we ever tell the people we love. Bonus fun: the series leads are married in real life.  
  6. The Newsroom (HBO/Max, 3 Seasons, 6-10 episodes/season, 2012): Made by Aaron Sorkin (who also made The West Wing), the Newsroom is a smart, fast-talking inside look at cable tv news in the 21st century. Although, in some ways, it is limited by the fact that it lives in a world that is both pre-Trump and pre-pandemic, it also serves as a good reminder that even though everything has changed, there are some core threads that we can follow through and that Sorkin attempts to critique and engage through this series.  Fair warning, this show has a way-too-short run, and, basically, as soon as it really starts to find its rhythm, it got canceled. Boo.  
  7. Arrested Development (Netflix, 5 Seasons, 13-22 episodes/season, 2003): Here’s another “it’s not for everyone” show. But in this case, it’s a matter of just how bizarre you like your dysfunctional family comedies. The Bluths are maximum bizarre and completely dysfunctional. And also, this show is brilliantly hilarious and weirdly endearing. Every member of the Bluth family is self-involved and inept, yet their loyalty to one another allows them to muddle their way through their father’s fraud case and the loss of the wealth they have come to rely on. The show had a too-short run from 2003-2006 (because it was just too out there to get much traction), and so a revival was attempted on Netflix by Netflix in 2015. Personally, I’d skip the later two seasons and just rewatch (on repeat) the first three….they are not horrible. They just aren’t nearly as amazing as the first three original series, now all available on Netflix. 
  8. Transparent (Amazon Prime, 4 Seasons (plus a musical finale), 10 episodes/season, 2014): This show about a parent who comes out as trans late in life, still feels incredibly ahead of its time nearly 10 years later. While later seasons were not quite as cohesive, the first two seasons of this show remain some of the best television I’ve ever seen, which is not really about the trans parent storyline. It’s actually more about the complex family dynamics, the strange and singular characters that are the children and ex-wife, and most of all, the Jewishness of the storyline, which I feel like we so rarely see portrayed on tv. As this show was ending, allegations were made about its star Jeffrey Tambor, which adds some complexity to watching it back, and I do appreciate the apologies he has made since. Nothing is simple, which is a lot of what this show explores.
  9. Mad Men (Amazon Prime, 7 Seasons, 13 episodes/season, 2007): Sometimes, when I hear the MAGA slogan, I flash on episodes of this series and wonder if this is what they are talking about. Because, at least from appearances, life for a certain class of white men in the 1960s seemed to be pretty great. Power, money, and a wife to cook you dinner sort of great. All this and absolutely zero emails to answer. Except that, even for these privileged few, behind the fancy clothes and long business lunches, there is also loneliness, alcoholism, insecurity, and emptiness. That’s the moral tale of Mad Men, which explores the world of a 1960s Manhattan-based advertising firm. What helps make this world actually a place you want to spend time in, though, are the characters, who are complex, funny, and entirely unique. You want to spend time with Peggy, the one woman who is trying to make a go at being an “ad man,” and you want to spend time with Joan, the powerhouse female secretary who comes into her own voice and her own place throughout the series. And despite all of his flaws, you want to spend time with Don Draper, the main protagonist, whose story you’re never sure is actually the truth, or just a really great pitch for a product you can’t wait to buy.  
  10. The X-Files (Amazon Prime, 11 Seasons, 20-25 episodes/season, 1993): For those of you who heard my sermon to kick off our Time Well Wasted series, you know I have a special place in my heart for The X-Files. In case you don’t know, this show is set in a special division of the FBI that investigates paranormal activity. There’s a whole complex (aka often convoluted) conspiracy theory embedded in the show about aliens and UFOs, but my favorite part of the series was always the stand-alone episodes, especially those written by Vince Gilligan, who went on to write and produce Breaking Bad. The heart of this show for me, will always be the dynamic between Scully (Gillian Anderson in her breakthrough role) and Mulder (David Duchovny) so that when Duchovny left at the end of season 7, the show just never made much sense for me after that. There was also an attempt to revive the show in 2016, but they relied too heavily on nostalgia for the original series, which by then had been outdone by a number of shows who had built on its original ideas and taken the technology and concepts even further. So….stick to those original, glorious seven seasons, caught in the 90s though they might be – and revel in the chemistry between the leads, laugh at the limited tech we all had access to, and appreciate what was and remains a singular original voice of science fiction and social commentary. 
  11. Girls (HBO/Max, 6 Seasons, 10-12 episodes/season, 2012): The most important thing you can know about this show going in is that it is mostly commentary. It is funny, raw, brave, and sometimes uneven and occasionally not great, and then, often, it is singularly brilliant. There are at least three episodes in its run I think everyone should watch multiple times. Hannah, the main character (played by creator/writer/director Lena Dunham) is often unlikable, clueless, and selfish and is also trying (or not trying) to grow up. Despite friendship being the show’s central organizing device, the main arc is a deterioration of the girls’ relationships. Many of the scenes are funny and original, and portray millennial young adulthood with such clarity you start to believe creator Lena Dunham, like the character she portrays, claims about herself, might be the voice of her generation after all. “Or at least, a voice of a generation…” Rewatching it a decade later, I am struck by how many scenes are played for awkward and honest as their main intent. Not beautiful or brilliant. Definitely not flattering to Dunham herself. Honest.  Awkward. Complicated. Messy. Human. 
  12. Big Love (HBO/Max, 5 Seasons, 9-12 episodes/season, 2006): While there is plenty to criticize in the LDS church, especially the fundamentalist version, this show attempts to humanize at least one expression of the faith: the polygamist family.  Big Love centers on the Henricksons, including patriarch Bill and his three wives, Barb, Nicki, and Margene. In this family, you can see the benefits of having more adults to tend to the inevitable complexities of parenthood and tending a household. You can see how many more complexities arrive when you add in two other relationships. This show offers a sincere exploration of what it means to be faithful – to your spouse, family, and religious beliefs- and how these things change over your life. Because they must keep their family secret (polygamy being illegal) there are also a lot of interesting parallels to gay families and the overall question about what right the state has to say who you have decided to call family.  
  13. United States of Tara (Hulu, 3 Seasons, 12 episodes/season, 2009): I’m pretty sure this is the first show where I really got a sense of Toni Collette, and I was immediately sold. Today I’ll basically watch anything she’s in. In United States of Tara, Collette plays Tara Gregson, a wife and mother with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). This means that Tara’s other personalities (she calls them alters) – distinctive personalities like the sassy T, the meticulous Alice, or the impulsive Buck – each take over her life at various points as she/they navigate the challenges of her condition. This is all a pretty serious topic, but most of the time, the show is funny and plays like a regular sitcom/dramedy.  All while exploring the complexities of mental health and the impact of Tara’s disorder on her relationships. This show deals with family, identity, boundaries, and resilience. It asks where the line is between acceptance and being overly accommodating. It’s a too-short run of episodes, but it is still worth investing in these brave and unique characters.  Besides, if you’re a Captain Marvel fan, this show is where Brie Larson got her start as Tara’s funny, smart, creative daughter.  
  14. Dead Like Me (Amazon Prime, 2 Seasons, 15 episodes/season, 2003): For such a short run, this show has had a really long-lasting impression on me. The premise itself isn’t what does it – even though it is clever and interesting. The main character, 18-year-old George, experiences a tragic accident in the first episode, and she dies. She is immediately recruited into being a Grim Reaper, a select group of those who help people who have died transition into the afterlife. More, it is the presence of a profoundly talented supporting cast – including Mandy Patinkin as George’s mentor and Cynthia Stevenson as George’s mom. There’s a kind of Our Town feel to this show, as George wakes up to her life’s meaning and the relationships that matter, but only after she is able to look back at them from her death. Two decades after it began its short run, I still find this show funny, insightful, and definitely worth returning to. 
  15. 24 (Hulu, 9 Seasons, 24 episodes/season, 2001): When this show came out, Carri and I were so obsessed with it we named our dog after one of its characters. You should watch it and try to guess which one. Every episode in a season of this series represents one hour, so the whole show represents 9 whole days spread out over the course of multiple years. Each episode displayed a clock, counting down the hour in real-time.  This was just one way that this show kept the adrenalin pumping and, at least in the age of streaming, have you continued to press Next Episode. Main character Jack Bauer works out of the counter-terrorism unit, which in 2001, was a very high-profile storyline to explore. The stakes at that time were not a distant fantasy, they felt very real, as did the decisions he and others had to make about what was ethical when it came to getting to the information we’d need to stop attacks. Personally, I’d suggest watching the first five seasons and then jump ship. The later seasons feel a little unnecessary like they are trying to recreate the magic of those first few years. But…those first few years were truly glorious high-energy television, even if it made you question what we should, or should not do, in order to stop potential problems in the future, and the reality that we really cannot make the world entirely safe for everyone, no matter what we do, or even if you have Jack Bauer on your side. And this is something we understand now even better than we did 22 years ago. 

TV Recommendations with Rev. Gretchen: Feel Good Shows

For the first batch of TV recommendations, we’re starting with the opposite of serious. All of these shows are accessible, easy to get into, with a general feel-good ethos. Here are 19 Feel-Good Shows I highly recommend you check out: 

  1. The Good Place (4 Seasons, 22-30 mins, Netflix): An extremely Unitarian Universalist take on the afterlife. The truth of this won’t become clear until a few seasons in, so you’ll have to trust me. It’s funny, smart, and surprisingly wholesome. The best series finale in my memory. 
  2. Fleabag (2 Seasons, 30 minutes, Amazon Prime): Fleabag a show about grief, friendship, family, and regret. It’s witty, tragic (though, like the main character, it hides it well), funny, and smart. And it’s a great length for such a powerful show. The second season is a world unto itself, probably even better than the first. Especially fun (and again, tragic) to watch as a clergyperson who has spent a lot of time thinking about boundaries, intimacy, and power in the church. You’ll know what I mean after you watch. Also, just try not to become obsessed with (star and creator) Phoebe Waller-Bridge after watching this show.
  3. Hacks (2 Seasons, 26-35 minutes, HBO): The formidable Jean Smart plays Deborah Vance, a groundbreaking female comic nearing the end of her career, though she doesn’t think so. When it looks like her Vegas contract will be pulled, her manager sends one of his other clients, a 25-year-old career-troubled comedian, Ava (Hannah Einbeinder), to help freshen up her act as a last-ditch effort. There are so many reasons I love this show. Most of all, I love that it takes an older woman seriously and gives her a full, complex history that fills out so much of who she has become, but not in a way that ever fully excuses her faults. I love that it does the same for a younger woman. I love that they both get to change through their relationship, or at least they try to. I love that both lead characters are trying to figure out just how brave they are willing to be and how much risk is worth it – both in their relationship and careers. I love that it is honest about what it takes for a woman to succeed at a big level in a career like comedy and how much it costs them.  
  4. Ted Lasso (3 Seasons, 30 minutes, Apple TV): It’s hard for me to imagine that someone out there hasn’t heard of Ted Lasso by now, but just in case, the quick summary is that a British soccer (football) team owner, Rebecca (played by the stunning Hannah Waddingham), hires an American football (not soccer) coach – Ted Lasso (Jason Sudeikis) – to coach her team. She does it as a way to humiliate and punish her cheating ex-husband. It’s a joke – except no one told Ted. This show is funny, original, smart, and unapologetically earnest. It explores and celebrates non-toxic masculinity and positive female friendship and believes in a world where people try to be better through community, loyalty, and play. As Ted Lasso’s motto goes, by the end, you can’t help but Believe!
  5. Schitt’s Creek (6 seasons, 22-30 minutes, Hulu): A bratty, superficial rich family loses all their money and ends up in a dead-end town living in a motel. Yes, it starts with some old tropes and some extremely unlikable characters, but this is a redemption tale wrapped in a love story held together by dry humor and bananas costume design. (In other words, if you aren’t sure through the first five or so episodes, keep going.) Second best series finale I can remember.
  6. Kim’s Convenience (5 seasons, 30 minutes, Netflix): This sweet, smart, very funny, and heartwarming show centers on Korean immigrants to Canada, Mr. and Mrs. Kim (Paul Sung Hyung Lee and Jean Yoon), and their two now-adult children Janet (Andrea Bang) and Jung (Simu Liu). The Kims own a convenience store, where much of the episodes unfold and where they have grounded their own story of independence and making a life for themselves and their children in Canada. Kim’s Convenience explores the cultural tensions and expectations present in an immigrant family in original and often hilarious ways that also feel authentic and specific.  
  7. Grace and Frankie (7 Seasons, 30 minutes, Netflix): I was a little skeptical of this show when it first started because I don’t buy the connection between Sol and Robert, but I was hooked by the end of the second season. I’m so glad I stuck with it because it ended up being a singular portrayal of female friendship, older adult sexuality, and older adulthood, period. Not to mention Jane Fonda is stunning and vulnerable, and I ❤ Grace more than maybe any other character ever. It almost makes me forget how unbelievable I still find the chemistry between Sol and Robert….almost… 
  8. Heartstopper (Netflix, 8 episodes, 30 minutes, 1 season): After all of the struggles of the last few years, Heartstopper came bursting through in 2022 with a refreshing, unapologetic, adorable joy. Set in high school, it is the story of 14-year-old Charlie (Joe Locke) and his friend Nick (Kit Connor). Nick has the audacity to treat Charlie like a human, even though Nick is a popular rugby player and Charlie is relentlessly teased and bullied for being gay and out. Adapted from her graphic novel series by writer Alice Oseman and using on-screen graphics along with animated text messages as a part of the visuals, everything about this show brings you back into that scary, vulnerable, invigorating time of self-discovery that is the best part of high school. Because even though Heartstopper does address the more painful and angsty parts of being a teenager, most of all, this is a show that makes you feel good. It is instead funny, sweet, heartwarming, and even wholesome – without sacrificing depth or specificity, or diversity in the characters and their stories. It’s the story I wish I would’ve had to watch growing up (I cannot even imagine how my life would’ve been impacted…) and also that I am so grateful we can watch with our kids (and parents) now.
  9. The Great (2 Seasons, 30 minutes, Hulu): My friend, who actually knows a lot about Catherine the Great, has a lot of problems watching this show because it’s so historically inaccurate. Luckily, I have no such problems, so I just got to thoroughly enjoy it in all my ignorance. Elle Fanning fearlessly plays Catherine, the smart and ambitious young German woman who heads to Russia to marry the Emperor, Peter III, the marvelously doltish Nicholas Hoult. The Great’s capacity to be both hilarious and absurd but also emotionally honest and tender is surprising and so much fun. There is a good amount of violence along the way – Peter’s constant disregard for anyone’s life except his own (and suddenly, Catherine’s) is offered by Catherine repeatedly as to why she’ll never love him. But mostly, it’s played more like a Shakespearean comedy than a tragedy – moving quickly, focusing on the main characters. Even though they are upfront about how much they’ve made up, the challenges of leading and being a woman with ambition and being a man who might prefer not to lead – all offer plenty of truth.  
  10. Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (4 Seasons, 30 minutes, Netflix): A musical comedy exploring mental health, loneliness, and the search for meaning and purpose in life today…. Did I lose you already? This show is strange, brilliant, and completely worth getting to know, even if you don’t usually trend toward musicals, comedies, or shows whose titles reference a “crazy ex-girlfriend.” Star and producer Rachel Bloom is brilliant, creative, and bold in her vision, and the musical numbers are singularly hilarious and on-point.  
  11. Sex Education (3 Seasons, 30 minutes, Netflix): This has been one of my very favorite shows in each of the last three years. It is a comedy and, at times, very lighthearted, but it is also a deeply touching and sometimes heart-wrenching portrayal of the complex world of teenage sexuality. The show shies away from nothing, and fair warning, the first episode’s first few minutes almost made me stop watching because it was just a little too explicit.  But that’s part of the beauty of the show…sex is portrayed as messy and awkward, as it often is in real life. The show revolves around the teenage Otis (Asa Butterfield) and his sex therapist mother (Gillian Anderson) until Otis takes all he’s learned into an advice business at school in partnership with his friend/crush Maeve (Emma Mackey). At its heart, this show is incredibly Unitarian Universalist in its message and is a lot of fun along the way. 
  12. Parks and Recreation (7 Seasons, 30 minutes, Netflix): Set in the fictional town of Pawnee, Indiana, this show centers on the employees of the Parks and Recreation Department, led by the optimistic and singularly determined Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler). Over their seven seasons, Leslie and her team navigate the challenges of local government bureaucracy while attempting to make their town a better place (or at least, that’s Leslie Knope’s mission…).  If you haven’t ever taken the time to check out Parks and Rec, I’m so jealous because that means that this funny, smart, and authentically heart-warming show is still something for you to discover and then join the rest of us when we wonder if – whenever we are feeling especially earnest and enthusiastic – if we are being a little too much like Leslie Knope….
  13. Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt (4 Seasons, 30 minutes, Netflix): Funny and smart with also a twinge of tragic – if you like Tina Fey’s sense of humor, you’ll probably love this show about a 29-year-old who was rescued from a kidnapper/cult leader after 15 years believing the world had ended. Supposedly it’s a story of Kimmy’s growth and self-discovery, but ultimately it’s a story of how it’s never too late for us to find and claim our own path of joy and meaning. All that sounds pretty serious – really, it’s mostly just a fun, silly, enjoyable show.
  14. Derry Girls (4 Seasons, 25 minutes, Netflix): Set in a small town in occupied Northern Ireland in the 1990s, Derry Girls is a story of friendship and growing up. Centering on a group of five teenagers growing up amid The Troubles (the Northern Ireland conflict), Derry Girls reminds us of the persistence and consistency of human life regardless of what is happening around us. Don’t be afraid to turn on the subtitles if the Irish accents make it hard for you to follow, and don’t be shy about re-watching past episodes to remember the sweet and hilarious trouble the girls find themselves in as they attempt to grow up.   
  15. Ghosts (BBC version, 3 Seasons, 30 minutes, HBO): Shortly after a young couple inherits a mansion in the British countryside, the wife discovers that she can see and hear the entire cast of ghosts who reside there. The ghosts have died on the property over the centuries, representing a range of residents from an early Viking to a witch burned at the stake, a lovelorn Edwardian poet, and a sketchy Thatcher-era politician who died with his pants off (and thus appears in the afterlife…  with no pants). What would the dead do with their time, given endless amounts of it? And how would they each engage with new technology and entertainment invented long after their death? And how should we think about their “rights” and quality of “life”? There is an American remake of the show that has gotten strong reviews, but I haven’t had a chance to check that out yet, so for now, I am focusing my recommendation on the BBC version, which is available on HBO.  
  16. We Are Lady Parts (1 Season, 30 minutes, Peacock): I get why you have likely not watched this show – it is very rare to find someone who is a Peacock subscriber. But I have to say that this show (in addition to a few others I’ll mention later in the month) is completely worth a 1-month subscription, after which you cancel the service (until the next season drops). We Are Lady Parts is an awesome, original comedy centered on an all-female, all-Muslim punk band. Led by the formidable Saira (Sarah Kameela Impey), the band is made up of a diverse and dynamic group who are each uniquely and unapologetically themselves – which makes the punk rock genre an especially perfect fit.  The first season follows the character Amina (Anjana Vasan), who struggles to reconcile her cultural values with her love for (punk rock) music. Not to mention a wicked case of stage fright. My only critique of this show is that it is way too short – which hopefully will be fixed before too long with a second season.  
  17. The Other Two (3 Seasons, 30 minutes, HBO): We all likely have a sense of Justin Beiber’s story – but no one ever asks about the young star’s siblings. That’s the subject of this funny and heartfelt comedy series, which focuses on two struggling siblings, Brooke (Helen Yorke) and Cary (Drew Tarver), as they navigate the ups and downs of their careers and personal lives after their 13-year-old brother Chase (Case Walker) suddenly becomes a viral sensation. Although early episodes trend towards a satirical feeling, it doesn’t take long before you really feel for Brooke and Cary and their attempts to find themselves and what matters to them, regardless of their brother’s fame.  
  18. Extraordinary (1 Season, 30 minutes, Hulu): In the world of Extraordinary, everyone gets a superpower as a part of becoming an adult, which is why our main character Jen (Emma Moran, also the creator and writer), a 25-year-old who has yet to received her power, is both extra compelling and also really struggling. This British series combines the conventions of the superhero genre with a sentimental buddy comedy to give us a compelling underdog tale, complicated by the fact that Jen is often a selfish, short-sighted individual who continually asks too much of her closest friends, especially her best friend, Carrie. Like most of these shows, this last sentence makes it sound like it’s less heartwarming than it is complicated, but ultimately the otherworldly premise controls the tone of this show and keeps us squarely in a story of creativity and possibility – and the hope while watching it is that the main character will do the same.    
  19. Shrinking (1 Season, 30 minutes, Apple TV): Anyone in a therapeutic-related profession will likely relate with and struggle with the show, Shrinking. In many ways, it asks you to suspend your ethical disbelief to accept the premise that therapy might be even more effective if therapists abandon their professional training and just say whatever they believe their clients should do. Or at least, that’s how the show starts. Starring Jason Segel, Harrison Ford, and Jessica Williams and created by the folks who also brought us Ted Lasso, Shrinking is a show about boundaries and their usefulness – and the consequences for failing to respect boundaries. It is a show about friendship, grief, and the lostness we all feel these days. It is still also steadfastly a comedy, which mostly works because of the brilliance of the actors, who commit to finding the line between the intensity of what their characters are dealing with and the joy of playing out the scenes together.

The Building Bulletin: April 2023

The new sanctuary is really taking shape, both inside and out. The exterior insulation is finished, and the CMU (Concrete Masonry Unit) exterior walls are getting taller. The standing seam metal roof has been installed – if you stand in the right place, you can see pieces of it. The interior has the stage floor framed out and drywall installed. There is now a better sense of the spaciousness of the new sanctuary.  

Some significant disruptions will occur after Memorial Day. We will be having our (hopefully) last round of asbestos remediation in the administration area. After that is completed, we will do some remodeling to provide more office space and a conference room. The office will move to a temporary location in the RE building until the remodel is completed.

The water supply for the new construction must be tied into the water main located under Drake Street. A section of the street will be torn up, the connection made, and the road patched. We are also required to replace our sidewalks and will update the islands in the lower parking lot. The Drake Street project will begin as soon as school is out. The other work will wait until the construction trailer is moved off-site. 

The AHU-1 (the air handling unit for the new area) has been delayed again and is expected to be shipped in mid-July. This will delay our Certificate of Occupancy until September. We expect to wrap up everything else and get a temporary certificate as soon as the sprinklers in the new area are hooked up to the water main. This will not allow us to hold services in the new sanctuary, but we will be able to store our new chairs and learn to use our new AV equipment while we wait for the final certificate.

As we near the end of this work, we want to take a minute to remind you how it fits into our larger plan and what you can expect now versus in the future. After significant input from the congregation during the planning phase, we drafted a master plan that includes the following. These are items that were important to us but could not be completed at this time and will be prioritized in future phases:

  • Increased and improved RE space and playgrounds
  • A worship space/chapel in the basement for youth programming, vespers, and potential rental for small weddings and events
  • Classrooms and other finished spaces in the basement
  • An addition to the administrative wing
  • A commercial kitchen
  • Improved and more sustainable landscaping 
  • An outdoor social court

The entire project was estimated to be approximately $12M. Staff and the BET prioritized the various projects and determined that the sanctuary should be our first phase of the project.

Once the congregation is ready to embark on another phase, a new BET will review and prioritize the other projects, and a new process will commence. Some of the above projects may need to be re-envisioned or modified, cost estimates will be obtained, and new priorities established. 

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