Author: Rev. Sean Neil-Barron (Page 3 of 9)

Rev. Sean is Foothills Acting Senior Minister while Rev. Gretchen is on Sabbatical.
Responsible for Worship, Justice Ministries, Faith Formation Strategies and sits on Foothills Executive Leadership Team with Director of Finances and Operations Katie Watkins.

Sean was born on Treaty 7 land in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and comes to Foothills after four years in New England where he completed seminary at Harvard Divinity School where he studied alongside future imams, rabbis, justice activists, and other Unitarian Universalists. Sean is a self-proclaimed nerd — particularly about history, current politics, science, and Star Wars. Outside of ministry you will find Sean hiking or cooking up a storm with his partner Charles, watching his son's basketball games, all under the watchful eye of their dog Dollie.

Enhanced Privacy and Security for our Church Directory

We want to inform you about a significant update to our church directory, managed through Planning Center. This update is aimed at enhancing the security of your personal information and safeguarding our community from potential scams.

Background

Our Church Directory, accessible via ChurchCenter (either on the app or online), is available to those who have been invited. Generally only those who are eligible for membership will be invited. Each member has full control over what information they choose to share within the directory.

What Changed and Why

Recently, Planning Center has made adjustments to the privacy settings in response to increasing reports of scammers exploiting church directories. These individuals have been known to impersonate pastors or trusted church members, deceiving people into giving them money. To combat this, Planning Center has introduced a new “Privacy Mode,” which automatically hides email addresses and phone numbers from public view. Instead, you can now connect with fellow members through a secure “Contact Me” button, allowing you to stay in touch while keeping your personal information protected.

Accessing the Directory

The directory is available only to members or those deeply engaged at Foothills, with access managed by our Foothills Admin Staff. If you would like to be added to the directory and currently do not have access, please let us know by filling out this form.

Deciding What Information to Share

If you’ve been invited to join the directory, you can decide what information to share, including details about your household members. You can choose to share your photo, birthday, address, phone number, and email, as well as which members of your household can be contacted through the secure “Contact Me” process. For more detailed instructions, visit this guide.

How to Contact Someone

Although this change was made by Planning Center, the directory remains a valuable tool for staying connected within our community. To learn how to use the directory effectively and securely, we encourage you to watch the following video:

To reach out to someone, search for their profile in the directory and click the “Contact Me” button. Your message will be sent directly to their primary email address, and any replies will come to your email. If the contact option is not available, it means that the person has chosen not to share their contact information.

An Alternate Way: Sharing Information with Group Members

At Foothills, we recognize that with a large congregation, sharing your information with everyone might not feel comfortable. However, you can still share your contact information with members of your small group or event attendees, such as at a potluck.

Using the ChurchCenter app, you can choose to share your information with the groups you are part of. By default, your name is visible to other group members if chat is enabled for your group, and group leaders can see all your contact information regardless of your privacy settings. You can also decide whether to share your picture, phone number, and email address. These settings can be customized for all groups or adjusted individually for each group.

For more detailed instructions on how to manage your settings, please refer to this guide.

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As always we appreciate your feedback and would love to answer your questions.

For questions about accessing or using the directory please contact Jenn Powell.
For questions on Data Privacy contact Rev. Sean.

 


Policy Corner

Foothills Privacy Policy (3.3.5) emphasizes the importance of giving you control over your personal information. While before this change every person had control over their private information on the directory, the implementation of “Privacy Mode,” further protects private information shared in good faith from falling in the hands of bad actors.

While we could disable this feature and make all contact information visible, we have chosen not to do so. This is primarily to protect our community from exploitation and scams in accordance with our Protection of Children and Vulnerable Adults (3.3.3.5) policy that mandates we take every measure to prevent exploitation, including in our digital spaces. By enhancing privacy in the directory, we help ensure a safer environment for all members, especially those who may be more vulnerable.

It’s Personal

Have you ever noticed that whenever someone says “Don’t take this personally but” no matter what the next words out of their mouth can not be taken any way but personally. 

When people have said “Don’t take this personally but I don’t believe being gay is nature”, it’s hard for me (Rev. Sean) to respond by saying “of course I won’t take your statement that  disregards my inherent worth and dignity personally, I’ll place it over here in a bucket of theoretical statements about things you believe that even though they impact me deeply, I’ll suspend any judgement or feelings about for the sake of your request”.

Don’t take this personally is another way of saying “I know you might be hurt by this or” or “It’s not about you even though you are involved”. But most of the time “Don’t take this personal” is a way of communicating don’t be a person about this.

 Don’t be…..A person who has insecurities, emotions and hangups. 

        A person who is porous and internalizes the world around them.

      A person with a specific and unique story that is still unfolding. 

Instead be a robot — unfeeling, dispassionate, and utterly generic and replaceable. 

It’s Personal is a worship series that begins August 18th that asks the question: what if we did take it personally and how might that change everything. 

Making It Personal wading through the water towards deep rather than shallow relationships. 

When we make it personal, what was once generic and distance becomes real and intimate. What might have gone ignored or unseen, is now in our faces. When we make it personal what might have once been only theoretical— terms like the beloved community, people living with addiction and mental health struggles, the kids that annoy you as they talk to their parents during worship —  start to have a face, and a story, and personalities, and depth in that true messy yet beautiful human way. 

In short, making it personal is the bridge towards relationships that actually matter. 

Every/Body (Worship Series)

Click to watch our series trailer.

Your body is welcome here, all of it.
Yes, even that part. And that part. And yes, even that part.
The parts you love, and the parts you don’t.
For in this place we come with all that we are
All that we have been,
And all that we are going to be.

It is from our bodies after all that all life flows and is experienced.
Our highest moments of connective pleasure and lowest valleys of pain – and every moment in between – play out on and within – a body. Your body. Your children’s bodies, your co-workers’ bodies, your parents bodies – all bodies, everywhere. 

Bodies are the place where the political becomes personal, becomes fleshy. Where toxic norms of good bodies and bad bodies, shameful bodies and ideal bodies, worthy bodies and dangerous bodies, ‘normal’ bodies and disabled bodies; collide with our lives. 

For many of us, our relationship with our bodies is unhealthy; having absorbed distorted messages of shame and unworthiness, having been a victim to violence and fear mongering because of the gift of our bodies. 

During this series take the challenge offered to us by black activist & author of This Body Is Not An Apology, Sonya Renee Taylor, to make peace with our bodies, to practice radical self-love for our bodies. 

But this is not just for us, Taylor contends that as we practice this radical self-love it opens up the possibility of being in true, deep, and just relationships with other bodies. l. As Taylor writes “Radical self-love demands that we see ourselves and others in the fullness of our complexities and intersections and that we work to create space for those intersections.” 

Bodies as sources of wisdom, agency and power. 
Bodies worthy at every age, every ability, every health status. 
Bodies as place of transformation — personal and political. 

Sunday Services

We always choose one song for each of our worship series that we sing or perform in every Sunday in the series.  It’s usually something you’ll find yourself singing later in the day, without even realizing it.  Because music connects in the deepest parts of our brains, the idea is that we’ll connect more fully with theme, and bring it into our everyday lives. 

For this series, check out this song from Heather Mae – I Am Enough! It’s a powerful anthem. 
Go Deeper – Resources for further reflection on the theme
1.  Krista Tippett on Being Grounded in Your Body

2. Body Scan Meditation and science as to why it works

3.  My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem

4.  TED Talk: Why We Need Gender Neutral Bathrooms:

5. On Desire: Why We Want What We Want by William Irvine

6. “There seems to be this sense where disabled people are kind of seen as oddities and forced to go through this world to be singled out and othered,” says Imani Barbarin. “There’s really no common sense attached when able-bodied people approach disabled people.”  Read more

7. Disability Visibility Project: https://disabilityvisibilityproject.com/about/

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